\u201eCe chestie! Eram sigur\u0103 c\u0103 fusta ta e neagr\u0103! A\u0219a mi s-a p\u0103rut c\u00e2nd ai venit! Dar v\u0103d c\u0103 e bej cu foarte pu\u021bin negru.\u201d, mi-a spus o coleg\u0103.
\u201eA\u0219a e, dac\u0103 te ui\u021bi din fa\u021b\u0103. Din spate \u00eens\u0103 e neagr\u0103. Ai v\u0103zut bine.\u201d
Aveam, \u00eentr-adev\u0103r, o fust\u0103 care din fa\u021b\u0103 era altfel dec\u00e2t era din spate.
Iar aceast\u0103 scurt\u0103 conversa\u021bie m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc c\u0103 a\u0219a se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 de multe ori: vedem ceva dintr-o perspectiv\u0103 \u0219i avem senza\u021bia c\u0103 acea perspectiv\u0103 este unic\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Fusta este neagr\u0103, dac\u0103 te ui\u021bi din spate. \u00centr-o organiza\u021bie, o problem\u0103 este \u00eentr-un fel, din perspectiva departamentului de produc\u021bie. V\u0103zut\u0103 de la v\u00e2nz\u0103ri, ea poate avea cu totul alte nuan\u021be. De la resurse umane, cauzele pot fi diferite. Iar directorul general poate avea, la r\u00e2ndul s\u0103u, alt\u0103 perspectiv\u0103.
Care este realitatea, de fapt? Cine are dreptate? De multe ori, cel mai bun r\u0103spuns este: Depinde.
Nu \u00een toate situa\u021biile r\u0103spunsul este \u00een nuan\u021be de negru sau bej. Dimpotriv\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
E posibil ca o problem\u0103 s\u0103 aib\u0103 mai multe cauze. Ce ajut\u0103 este s\u0103 punem \u00eentreb\u0103rile corecte. Sau s\u0103 continu\u0103m cu \u00eentreb\u0103rile p\u00e2n\u0103 ajungem la adev\u0103rata problem\u0103. Deseori ni se pare c\u0103 perspectiva noastr\u0103 este cea mai bun\u0103, c\u0103 realitatea noastr\u0103 este Realitatea cu majuscul\u0103.
Demersul care ajut\u0103 este s\u0103 nu s\u0103rim repede s\u0103 tragem concluzii, s\u0103 st\u0103m \u00eentr-o zon\u0103 mai gri, s\u0103 rezist\u0103m \u00een incertitudine, s\u0103 punem \u00eentreb\u0103ri, s\u0103 ascult\u0103m alte perspective, s\u0103 \u021binem cont de faptul c\u0103 avem to\u021bi riscul de a ne \u00eendr\u0103gosti de propria p\u0103rere, propria idee, dar c\u0103 aceasta nu este neap\u0103rat cea mai bun\u0103.
Toate acestea presupun g\u00e2ndire critic\u0103, smerenie, toleran\u021b\u0103, r\u0103bdare, disponibilitatea de a ne schimba perspectiva, puterea de a rezista f\u0103r\u0103 a da un r\u0103spuns, f\u0103r\u0103 a trage concluzii rapid, de a \u021bine \u00een aer op\u021biunile, mai ales c\u00e2nd acestea sunt extrem de diferite.
Spre reamintire, iat\u0103 ce spunea F. Scott Fitzgerald: \u201eTestul unei inteligen\u021be de prim rang este capacitatea de a avea \u00een minte dou\u0103 idei opuse \u00een acela\u0219i timp \u0219i de a-\u0219i p\u0103stra capacitatea de a func\u021biona.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Weekly Inspiration scris de Georgeta Dendrino.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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