Care este cel mai r\u0103u lucru care se poate \u00eent\u00e2mpla? am \u00eentrebat-o, dup\u0103 ce mi-a povestit c\u0103 ajunsese \u00een alt\u0103 echip\u0103, cu alt manager.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cel mai r\u0103u ar fi s\u0103 m\u0103 dea afar\u0103. A continuat explic\u00e2ndu-mi de ce ar fi r\u0103u, c\u00e2t de mult \u00ee\u0219i dorea s\u0103 se potriveasc\u0103, s\u0103 nu fie nevoie s\u0103 caute alt job, mai ales c\u0103 avea altele pe cap \u00een acea perioad\u0103.
Am l\u0103sat-o s\u0103 povesteasc\u0103 \u0219i apoi am spus c\u0103, dup\u0103 p\u0103rerea mea, cel mai r\u0103u lucru nu era s\u0103 fie dat\u0103 afar\u0103. La v\u00e2rsta ei (avea pu\u021bin sub 30 de ani), cu nivelul s\u0103u de educa\u021bie (doctorat \u00een alt\u0103 \u021bar\u0103, \u00eentr-un domeniu de cercetare), cu implicarea ei \u00een diverse proiecte, avea s\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 ceva de f\u0103cut, f\u0103r\u0103 \u00eendoial\u0103. Cel mai r\u0103u era s\u0103 se \u00eemboln\u0103veasc\u0103 din nou, s\u0103 fie nevoit\u0103 s\u0103 stea iar acas\u0103, la pat, 2-3 luni \u0219i s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i revin\u0103 cu greu. Corpul ei \u00eei d\u0103duse ni\u0219te semnale deja, \u00eei transmisese c\u0103 era ceva \u00een neregul\u0103. Dac\u0103 ea continua \u00een acela\u0219i fel, rezultatele nu aveau s\u0103 fie diferite de trecut.
A r\u0103mas pe g\u00e2nduri, iar eu am a\u0219teptat \u00een lini\u0219te s\u0103 spun\u0103 ceva. Cu lacrimi \u00een ochi a spus c\u0103 nu se g\u00e2ndise a\u0219a, c\u0103 nu \u00eei ar\u0103tase nimeni c\u0103 \u0219i ea era important\u0103.
De multe ori uit\u0103m ce este cel mai important, de fapt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu sus\u021bin aici egoismul feroce, departe de mine acest g\u00e2nd. Nu sunt nici pentru altruismul f\u0103r\u0103 limite, \u00een care ajungem s\u0103 nu mai cont\u0103m \u00een favoarea altora.
Sus\u021bin o abordare echilibrat\u0103, una \u00een care avem grij\u0103 \u0219i de noi ca s\u0103 putem avea grij\u0103 de ceilal\u021bi, ca s\u0103 putem face performan\u021b\u0103.
C\u00e2nd un coleg de-ai mei a plecat la ski cu ma\u0219ina, i-am \u00eemprumutat ma\u0219ina mea pentru c\u0103 a lui avea ni\u0219te riscuri. Trebuia s\u0103 o duc\u0103 la service, s\u0103 verifice bateria, deoarece risca s\u0103 nu porneasc\u0103 la temperaturi prea sc\u0103zute. Ne preocup\u0103m de starea ma\u0219inii, o ducem la inspec\u021bie tehnic\u0103 periodic\u0103, cineva se uit\u0103 sub capota ei ca s\u0103 \u00eei verifice \u201es\u0103n\u0103tatea\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar s\u0103 revenim la oameni: ace\u0219tia risc\u0103 s\u0103 se \u00eemboln\u0103veasc\u0103 pentru c\u0103 sistemul lor imunitar e sc\u0103zut. De ce a sc\u0103zut? Pentru c\u0103 a fost pus sistematic la stres emo\u021bional sau la prea multe proiecte; sau pentru c\u0103 individul a m\u00e2ncat necontrolat, prea pu\u021bin, prea mult, prea t\u00e2rziu, seara; sau pentru c\u0103 mediul \u00een care a func\u021bionat a devenit prea stresant, iar st\u0103p\u00e2nul acelui corp nu i-a dat timp s\u0103 se refac\u0103, nu a dormit suficient, nu a f\u0103cut suficient\u0103 mi\u0219care; sau pentru c\u0103 a acceptat s\u0103 fie \u00eenconjurat prea mult timp de oameni negativi, agresivi, care l-au diminuat consecvent. Acest lucru este valabil nu doar \u00een mediul profesional, ci \u0219i \u00een sfera personal\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ajut\u0103 s\u0103 punem pe un plan important at\u00e2t jobul, pe ceilal\u021bi, c\u00e2t \u0219i pe noi \u00een\u0219ine. Iar aceasta presupune s\u0103 ne ducem \u0219i pe noi la un fel de garaj, a\u0219a cum ducem ma\u0219ina, s\u0103 ne uit\u0103m ce e dincolo de aparen\u021be, de caroserie. A\u0219a cum facem ITP-ul ma\u0219inii, e bine s\u0103 facem \u0219i un fel de ITP personal. Nu de alta, dar, dac\u0103 putem \u00eemprumuta ma\u0219ina cuiva ca s\u0103 ne duc\u0103 dintr-un loc \u00een altul, nu putem \u00eemprumuta alt corp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cemi amintesc de ceva ce am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat la primul curs de v\u00e2nz\u0103ri f\u0103cut acum mul\u021bi ani: cea mai important\u0103 persoan\u0103 din lume e\u0219ti tu. Dac\u0103 v\u0103 sun\u0103 egoist, atunci g\u00e2ndi\u021bi-v\u0103 c\u0103 este un motiv serios pentru care \u00een avion vi se spune s\u0103 v\u0103 pune\u021bi masca de oxigen \u00eent\u00e2i vou\u0103 \u00een\u0219iv\u0103. Fiecare alege ce prioritizeaz\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Weekly Inspiration scris de Georgeta Dendrino.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Care este cel mai r\u0103u lucru care se poate \u00eent\u00e2mpla? am \u00eentrebat-o, dup\u0103 ce mi-a povestit c\u0103 ajunsese \u00een alt\u0103 echip\u0103, cu alt manager. Cel mai r\u0103u ar fi s\u0103 m\u0103 dea…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9479,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[18],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9534"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9534"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9534\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9535,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9534\/revisions\/9535"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/9479"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9534"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9534"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9534"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}