\u201cL-am v\u0103zut diminea\u021ba, \u0219tii cum este el, \u00eenalt, impun\u0103tor. Seara, la plecare, ar\u0103ta ca \u0219i cum intrase la ap\u0103, ca \u0219i cum se topise\u201d, mi-a spus cineva despre un coleg de-ai s\u0103i.
Poate a\u021bi v\u0103zut sau a\u021bi fost \u00een situa\u021bii \u00een care doi oameni au o disensiune, totul devine o ceart\u0103 ur\u00e2t\u0103, unul \u00eei arunc\u0103 celuilalt tot felul de cuvinte, \u00eel amenin\u021b\u0103, \u00eel nume\u0219te \u00een fel \u0219i chip, \u00eel diminueaz\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cL-am v\u0103zut diminea\u021ba, \u0219tii cum este el, \u00eenalt, impun\u0103tor. Seara, la plecare, ar\u0103ta ca \u0219i cum intrase la ap\u0103, ca \u0219i cum se topise\u201d, mi-a spus cineva despre un coleg de-ai s\u0103i.Poate…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9479,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[18],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9522"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9522"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9522\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9523,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9522\/revisions\/9523"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/9479"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9522"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9522"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9522"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\u00cemi amintesc de o scen\u0103 din Ally McBeal<\/em>, \u00een care aceasta se sup\u0103r\u0103 r\u0103u pe un coleg \u0219i \u00ee\u0219i imagineaz\u0103 c\u0103 poate scoate fl\u0103c\u0103ri prin n\u0103ri, astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 \u00eel topeasc\u0103 pe cel\u0103lalt. Acolo era amuzant. \u00cens\u0103, din p\u0103cate, prea des vedem \u00een mediul de business astfel de comportamente. Unii oameni au impresia c\u0103 numai c\u0103lc\u00e2nd peste al\u021bii se pot ridica. Nu conteaz\u0103 nivelul la care se afl\u0103 ace\u0219ti diminuatori, nu conteaz\u0103 tipul de companie. Ei sunt prezen\u021bi \u00een multe zone.
Am avut, din p\u0103cate, c\u00e2teva astfel de experien\u021be. La un moment dat, f\u0103ceam parte dintr-un grup cu responsabilit\u0103\u021bi la nivel global, cu oameni de diverse na\u021bionalit\u0103\u021bi. \u00cen 9 din 10 \u00eent\u00e2lniri, tonul a dou\u0103 persoane era mereu acuzator, mult prea ridicat, parc\u0103 adunaser\u0103 tone de frustr\u0103ri \u00een via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i veneau s\u0103 le verse acolo. \u00cemi \u00eenchipuiam c\u0103 erau ma\u0219ini pline de gunoi \u0219i desc\u0103rcau mizeria. C\u00e2nd mi-am dat seama c\u0103 \u00eencepea s\u0103 m\u0103 doar\u0103 capul numai la g\u00e2ndul c\u0103 urma s\u0103 am \u0219edin\u021be online cu acele persoane, am decis c\u0103 nu era genul de grup potrivit pentru mine. \u0218tiu, \u00eemi vor spune unele persoane, psihologi sau coaches<\/em>, c\u0103 am eu r\u0103ni ascunse, c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 merg la terapie. Merg, \u0219tiu ce r\u0103ni am. \u00cens\u0103 nu e doar despre asta.
\u00centr-o lume \u00een care mai exist\u0103 c\u00e2teva urme de bun\u0103 purtare, \u00een care igiena rela\u021bional\u0103 este predicat\u0103 \u00een multe medii, e bine s\u0103 mai \u0219i punem \u00een aplicare ceea ce spunem. Nimeni nu are dreptul s\u0103 se poarte ur\u00e2t cu ceilal\u021bi; nimeni nu are dreptul s\u0103 \u021bipe, s\u0103 \u00eei fac\u0103 pe ceilal\u021bi \u00een fel \u0219i chip, s\u0103 arunce injurii, s\u0103 amenin\u021be, s\u0103 diminueze, \u00een numele niciunei cauze.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Poate gre\u0219im uneori, poate am f\u0103cut ceva aiurea sau nu am f\u0103cut ceva, \u00eens\u0103 consider c\u0103 tonul face muzica. Lipsa de respect ar trebui s\u0103 devin\u0103 intolerabil\u0103 \u00een orice situa\u021bie. Iar dac\u0103 cineva persist\u0103 \u00een astfel de comportamente, ar fi de dorit s\u0103 se fac\u0103 gol \u00een jurul s\u0103u. \u00cemi doresc o lume \u00een care astfel de comportamente s\u0103 fie imediat sanc\u021bionate, \u00een care cei din jur s\u0103 nu se comporte precum spectatorii la cinema, care \u00ee\u0219i iau popcorn \u0219i asist\u0103 amuza\u021bi, uimi\u021bi, ci se implic\u0103, sanc\u021bioneaz\u0103 pe loc devierile.
\u00cemi doresc s\u0103 devenim mai asertivi, nu agresivi, integri, etici, s\u0103 ne sus\u021binem mai mult unii pe ceilal\u021bi, s\u0103 l\u0103s\u0103m din individualismul exacerbat \u0219i s\u0103 ne pese mai mult, s\u0103 ne ridic\u0103m unii pe ceilal\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Weekly Inspiration scris de Georgeta Dendrino.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"