Uite, stai aici, pe scaun! Vrei ap\u0103? Ai nevoie de ceva? Ah, \u0219i vorbe\u0219te mai \u00eencet, c\u0103 nu e\u0219ti la tine acas\u0103!, spunea o doamn\u0103, la un salon, mamei sale, pe care o adusese pentru o rutin\u0103 de \u00eenfrumuse\u021bare. Mama ar\u0103ta bine, energic\u0103, cu o vitalitate admirabil\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eI-am spus s\u0103 aib\u0103 grij\u0103 s\u0103 arate bine mereu, m\u0103 enerveaz\u0103 c\u0103 e neglijent\u0103 c\u00e2nd st\u0103 acas\u0103!\u201d, continua aceea\u0219i doamn\u0103 c\u0103tre cea care \u00eei aranja p\u0103rul mamei \u0219i care \u00eencerca s\u0103 detensioneze situa\u021bia, spun\u00e2nd c\u0103 to\u021bi mai suntem neglijen\u021bi cu noi acas\u0103, c\u0103 e spa\u021biul unde ne permitem.
Oare care este momentul \u00een care ajungem s\u0103 \u00eei trat\u0103m pe p\u0103rin\u021bi ca pe copii ne\u0219tiutori, f\u0103r\u0103 vreo experien\u021b\u0103? Uneori nu doar pe p\u0103rin\u021bi, ci \u0219i pe colegi mai \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103 dec\u00e2t noi \u00eei trat\u0103m ca \u0219i cum le-ar lipsi ni\u0219te neuroni.
C\u00e2nd, \u00een ce moment, se produce aceast\u0103 schimbare \u0219i ajungem s\u0103 ne erij\u0103m \u00een cei care \u0219tim mai multe dec\u00e2t ceilal\u021bi, super-protectori, de\u021bin\u0103tori ai \u00een\u021belepciunii?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Poate c\u0103 cel\u0103lalt are nevoie de pu\u021bin\u0103 aten\u021bie; poate c\u0103 singur\u0103tatea, dup\u0103 o anumit\u0103 v\u00e2rst\u0103, ne face s\u0103 vorbim mai mult atunci c\u00e2nd prindem pe cineva prin jur. Poate c\u0103 unii r\u0103m\u00e2n bloca\u021bi \u00eentr-un punct de vedere (dar nu avem to\u021bi acest risc, nu ni se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 uneori?) sau povestesc acelea\u0219i \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103ri pe care le-au mai spus.
S\u0103 nu uit\u0103m \u00eens\u0103 c\u0103 avem, mul\u021bi dintre noi, \u0219anse s\u0103 ajungem la v\u00e2rste mai \u00eenaintate.
Propun, ca experiment, s\u0103 ne uit\u0103m la oamenii mai \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103 ca \u0219i cum ne-am uita la viitor prin gaura cheii \u0219i am vedea posibile scenarii ale propriei fiin\u021be: uneori uit\u0103m, repet\u0103m pove\u0219ti, alteori suntem cic\u0103litori sau ne pl\u00e2ngem c\u0103 ne dor articula\u021biile, am\u00e2n\u0103m s\u0103 ne vopsim p\u0103rul sau pur \u0219i simplu vrem s\u0103 nu o mai facem, via\u021ba nu mai este despre astfel de demersuri. Poate c\u0103 un astfel de exerci\u021biu ne-ar ajuta s\u0103 ne pozi\u021bion\u0103m diferit fa\u021b\u0103 de ceilal\u021bi: mai uman, mai \u00een\u021beleg\u0103tor, mai bl\u00e2nd, mai egal, mai atent, mai delicat, ca s\u0103 nu spun cuvinte mai mari, precum cu compasiune, respect, iubire?
Weekly Inspiration scris de Georgeta Dendrino.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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