\u201eS\u0103 ning\u0103, dom\u2019le la munte, acolo e frumos, nu \u00een Bucure\u0219ti.\u201d
\u201eOk, am \u00een\u021beles, o zi-dou\u0103, dar s\u0103 se mai \u0219i opreasc\u0103!\u201d
\u201eDaaaa, ce s\u0103-\u021bi spun, este feeric p\u00e2n\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 desz\u0103peze\u0219ti ma\u0219ina\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Iat\u0103 c\u00e2teva fr\u00e2nturi de conversa\u021bie pe tema predilect\u0103 a acestor zile. Nimic special, am putea spune. Dac\u0103 am pune sub lupa g\u00e2ndirii critice afirma\u021biile acestea sau altele asem\u0103n\u0103toare, am realiza c\u0103 sunt destul de absurde. Nu control\u0103m vremea, nu este un fenomen la cheremul nevoilor traiului nostru urban, confortabil \u0219i privilegiat, din multe puncte de vedere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cemi dau seama c\u0103 probabil voi p\u0103rea pre\u021bioas\u0103. Desigur, nu fiecare interac\u021biune trebuie s\u0103 fie un izvor de \u00een\u021belepciune. Exist\u0103 o anumit\u0103 pl\u0103cere sau u\u0219urare \u00een a vorbi despre banalit\u0103\u021bi, \u00een a ventila opinii m\u0103runte despre care \u0219tim c\u0103 nu vor schimba fa\u021ba lumii. Un anumit confort \u00een a ne rezuma la subiecte superficiale \u00een conversa\u021biile de complezen\u021b\u0103 pe care le avem zi de zi, mai ales cu cei pe care nu \u00eei cunoa\u0219tem prea bine.
M\u0103 \u00eentreb \u00eens\u0103 dac\u0103 nu cumva abuz\u0103m de subiectele acestea, perfecte pentru un schimb de replici \u00een lift p\u00e2n\u0103 la etajul unde avem biroul sau c\u00e2t a\u0219tept\u0103m s\u0103 se termine petrecerea colegei de banc\u0103 a celui mic. \u201eVia\u021ba e \u00een alt\u0103 parte\u201d era titlul unui roman al scriitorului ceh Milan Kundera. Oare nu cumva le folosim \u0219i ca un fel de scut care ne protejeaz\u0103 via\u021ba interioar\u0103, care este \u00een alt\u0103 parte?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De ce nu trecem dincolo de \u201esmall talk\u201d, de ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 relativ rar s\u0103 abord\u0103m teme mai ofertante, sau s\u0103 ducem un subiect \u00eentr-o direc\u021bie mai profund\u0103, diferit\u0103 de c\u0103r\u0103rile b\u0103t\u0103torite deja? Cred c\u0103 nu prea mai \u0219tim cum, pentru c\u0103 am pierdut obiceiul, la nivel genera\u021bional. Genera\u021biile trecute cultivau arta conversa\u021biei \u0219i puneau pre\u021b pe cultura general\u0103, care era o surs\u0103 inepuizabil\u0103 de subiecte. Este adev\u0103rat, asta s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat \u0219i pentru c\u0103 stilul de via\u021b\u0103 era altul, timpul ca experien\u021b\u0103 subiectiv\u0103 trecea altfel, felul \u00een care oamenii defineau o via\u021b\u0103 bun\u0103 era diferit. Stilul nostru de via\u021b\u0103 modern, deseori gr\u0103bit \u0219i superficial, nu ne mai d\u0103 r\u0103gaz s\u0103 ne bucur\u0103m de o conversa\u021bie tihnit\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 alt\u0103 miz\u0103 dec\u00e2t a schimba idei \u0219i a ne \u00eembog\u0103\u021bi spiritul.
Cred \u00eens\u0103 c\u0103 de multe ori ne este \u0219i team\u0103 s\u0103-i l\u0103s\u0103m pe ceilal\u021bi \u00eentr-un spa\u021biu mai intim al min\u021bii noastre. Pentru c\u0103 asta presupune s\u0103 trecem de \u201ddepinde\u201d, acel r\u0103spuns umbrel\u0103 pentru practic orice, \u0219i s\u0103 devenim mai personali \u0219i astfel mai vulnerabili. Mai presupune \u0219i un efort de filtrare, dac\u0103 nu vrem s\u0103 fim asemeni celor care expun cu o dezinvoltur\u0103 uneori \u0219ocant\u0103 opinii sau aspecte ce \u021bin de via\u021ba privat\u0103. \u0218i-atunci umplem spa\u021biul creat cu afirma\u021bii, idei sau \u00eentreb\u0103ri sigure, \u00eens\u0103 mai degrab\u0103 banale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
S\u0103 facem ceva \u00een sensul \u0103sta? De ce nu, dac\u0103 vrem s\u0103 cre\u0219tem calitatea conversa\u021biilor pe care le avem. Dar pentru asta va trebui probabil s\u0103 risc\u0103m un pic. S\u0103 ie\u0219im afar\u0103 la z\u0103pad\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 ne ud\u0103m pu\u021bin la picioare.
Weekly Inspirations scris de Alina Doica.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u201eS\u0103 ning\u0103, dom\u2019le la munte, acolo e frumos, nu \u00een Bucure\u0219ti.\u201d\u201eOk, am \u00een\u021beles, o zi-dou\u0103, dar s\u0103 se mai \u0219i opreasc\u0103!\u201d\u201eDaaaa, ce s\u0103-\u021bi spun, este feeric p\u00e2n\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 desz\u0103peze\u0219ti ma\u0219ina\u2026\u201d Iat\u0103…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6508,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[18],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9514"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9514"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9514\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9515,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9514\/revisions\/9515"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/6508"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9514"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9514"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9514"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}