\u201e\u0218i apropo, vezi c\u0103 disear\u0103 stau p\u00e2n\u0103 la 12 ca s\u0103-i zic la mul\u021bi ani\u201d, m-a anun\u021bat ea pe un ton non\u0219alant, dup\u0103 care \u0219i-a amintit c\u0103 era nevoie \u0219i de o permisiune pe-acolo pe undeva \u0219i a ad\u0103ugat: \u201ePot?\u201d
\u201eNu \u0219tiu, stai s\u0103 m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc pu\u021bin\u201d, i-am r\u0103spuns, \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103 nu traduc \u00een non-verbal ce-mi trecea atunci prin minte.
Observ repede pilotul meu automat \u2013 ai \u00eennebunit, e zi de \u0219coal\u0103, ce convenabil c\u0103 mai c\u00e2\u0219tigi dou\u0103 ore de stat aiurea pe telefon, etc. \u2013 dar \u0219i o ocazie pentru o conversa\u021bie mai profund\u0103. A\u0219a c\u0103 las balt\u0103 cic\u0103leala \u0219i o \u00eentreb de ce \u021bine mor\u021bi\u0219 s\u0103 fie prima persoan\u0103 care o sun\u0103. \u00cen cazul acesta e vorba de prietena ei cea mai bun\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dup\u0103 ce ne l\u0103murim c\u0103 nu este vorba de de ce-ul parental cu iz de justificare, \u00eencepem s\u0103 \u00een\u0219ir\u0103m motive posibile \u0219i s\u0103 le discut\u0103m: este un ritual al prieteniei voastre? Peer pressure? Ceva ce \u0219tii c\u0103 e important pentru ea? Nevoia de a \u0219ti c\u0103 e\u0219ti cea mai special\u0103 persoan\u0103 din via\u021ba ei (cu un pic de trufie pudrat\u0103 pe deasupra)? Pu\u021bin din fiecare?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
E important s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem mixul: de ce facem lucrurile pe care le facem? Ce ne m\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een lupt\u0103? Asta ne ajut\u0103, evident, s\u0103 ne cunoa\u0219tem mai bine, dar \u0219i s\u0103 fim mai one\u0219ti, mai reali\u0219ti \u00een privin\u021ba propor\u021biei de motiva\u021bii altruiste versus egoiste care stau la baza tuturor deciziilor noastre. \u0218tiu, sunt ni\u0219te cuvinte imperfecte. E vorba de mai multe aspecte; motivele pot fi dictate de factori diver\u0219i: de valorile noastre, de nevoi, de percep\u021bii, de circumstan\u021be, pentru a numi doar c\u00e2\u021biva. Dar e un exerci\u021biu de reflec\u021bie s\u0103n\u0103tos. Fundamental \u00een anii formatori, desigur, \u00eens\u0103 de repetat ca rutin\u0103 de \u00eentre\u021binere la maturitate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Weekly Inspiration scris de Alina Doica.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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