Manifest\u0103ri ale respectului, ale bunelor maniere, sunt considerate de mul\u021bi contemporani ca fiind desuete, demne de secolul al nou\u0103sprezecelea.
S\u0103 aju\u021bi pe cineva, s\u0103 \u00eei deschizi u\u0219a, s\u0103 te ridici, dac\u0103 e\u0219ti la mas\u0103 cu o femeie, atunci c\u00e2nd ea se ridic\u0103, s\u0103 salu\u021bi, s\u0103 vorbe\u0219ti f\u0103r\u0103 a arunca jigniri \u00een st\u00e2nga \u0219i \u00een dreapta, s\u0103 ascul\u021bi c\u00e2nd cineva vorbe\u0219te, s\u0103 spui ceva constructiv \u00eentr-un mesaj privat sau la telefon ori fa\u021b\u0103 \u00een fa\u021b\u0103, nu public, pe social media, iat\u0103 c\u00e2teva exemple de comportament ce \u021bin mai degrab\u0103 de civiliza\u021bie dec\u00e2t de \u00eenvechit. \u0218tiu, de multe ori realitatea contemporan\u0103 ne surprinde zilnic cu jigniri, strig\u0103te, glume nes\u0103rate \u0219i inadecvate, mojicii, \u00eens\u0103 mai sunt \u0219i excep\u021bii. Iat\u0103 un exemplu de o astfel de excep\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am fost recent la pr\u00e2nz cu un client. La un moment dat, el \u00eemi spune:
\u201eTe rog s\u0103 m\u0103 scuzi, revin \u00eentr-un minut\u201d, s-a ridicat \u0219i s-a dus c\u0103tre u\u0219\u0103. Acolo a ajutat pe un t\u00e2n\u0103r care \u00eencerca s\u0103 intre. Omul acela avea c\u00e2rje, venea s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2lneasc\u0103 cu cineva la restaurant. Clientul meu a revenit, s-a a\u0219ezat, a cerut scuze din nou, apoi am continuat conversa\u021bia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M-a bucurat s\u0103 v\u0103d c\u0103 mai exist\u0103 oameni care sunt aten\u021bi cu cei din jur, care imediat sar s\u0103 ofere o m\u00e2n\u0103 de ajutor. Ah, am uitat s\u0103 spun c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd am intrat \u00een restaurant, am aflat c\u0103 parcasem pe un loc aiurea \u0219i trebuia s\u0103 merg s\u0103 mut ma\u0219ina. Calm, clientul mi-a cerut cheia \u0219i a mers el s\u0103 o mute.
De ce m\u0103 surprinde pl\u0103cut acest comportament? Pentru c\u0103 nu (mai) sunt obi\u0219nuit\u0103, pentru c\u0103, \u00een general, reprezint\u0103 excep\u021bia de la ce v\u0103d adesea \u00een jur. Mul\u021bi mi-au spus, mai degrab\u0103, c\u0103 dac\u0103 vreau ceva, trebuie s\u0103 cer. Altfel, s\u0103 nu am a\u0219tept\u0103ri. A\u0219adar, dac\u0103 a\u0219 vrea s\u0103 se comporte cineva civilizat, dac\u0103 a\u0219 vrea s\u0103 nu ridice tonul aiurea, s\u0103 \u00eei cer asta! Ca \u0219i cum firescul este impolite\u021bea, este lipsa de respect, de delicate\u021be, iar excep\u021bionalul trebuie cerut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Revenind la exemplul meu, c\u00e2nd v\u0103d ini\u021biative de acest fel, m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc c\u0103 mai exist\u0103 totu\u0219i ni\u0219te r\u0103m\u0103\u0219i\u021be de bune maniere, elegan\u021b\u0103, empatie, compasiune, grij\u0103, deci mai exist\u0103 ceva speran\u021b\u0103 c\u0103 nu suntem condamna\u021bi s\u0103 fim singuri \u00eentr-o lume iluzorie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Weekly Inspiration scris de Georgeta Dendrino.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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