\u201e\u00cen spiritul autenticit\u0103\u021bii, am preten\u021bia s\u0103 fiu acceptat\u0103 a\u0219a cum sunt, s\u0103 nu fie nevoie s\u0103 m\u0103 schimb eu pentru nimeni\u201d, mi-a spus cineva recent. Nu de aici, din alt\u0103 \u021bar\u0103, orice asem\u0103nare cu realitatea carpato-danubian\u0103 este \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103toare.
Am tras aer \u00een piept \u0219i am \u00eentrebat cum define\u0219te autenticitatea. Ideea aceasta de a fi accepta\u021bi a\u0219a cum suntem \u00eemi cam d\u0103 cu virgul\u0103.
\u00cen\u021beleg diversitatea de p\u0103reri, gen, ras\u0103, religie, cultur\u0103, orice. \u00cen\u021beleg c\u0103 facem alegeri \u00een func\u021bie de ce ne face bine, ce ne place, ce ne trebuie pe termen mediu \u0219i lung.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cen acela\u0219i timp, m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc c\u0103 nu ar fi r\u0103u s\u0103 \u021binem cont de c\u00e2teva aspecte:
Noi tr\u0103im \u00eempreun\u0103 cu ceilal\u021bi; fiecare vine \u00eentr-o rela\u021bie, de orice natur\u0103 ar fi ea, cu propriile a\u0219tept\u0103ri, experien\u021be, nevoi, temeri, speran\u021be;
E bine s\u0103 ne g\u0103sim locul printre ceilal\u021bi, astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 nu \u00eenc\u0103lc\u0103m libertatea nim\u0103nui \u0219i s\u0103 ne manifest\u0103m totu\u0219i;
Orice efort de adaptare la situa\u021bie, context, persoan\u0103, grup social, este mai mult dec\u00e2t binevenit, dac\u0103 nu necesar chiar;
G\u00e2ndi\u021bi-v\u0103 cum ne adapt\u0103m c\u00e2nd mergem \u00eentr-o cultur\u0103 nou\u0103: \u0219tim c\u0103 \u00eentr-o \u021bar\u0103 un b\u0103rbat nu d\u0103 m\u00e2na cu o femeie care nu este din cercul foarte apropiat, \u00een alt\u0103 parte ne desc\u0103l\u021b\u0103m la intrare, \u00een alt loc m\u00e2nc\u0103m direct cu m\u00e2na, f\u0103r\u0103 furculi\u021b\u0103, \u00een alt\u0103 parte este acceptat s\u0103 ragi la mas\u0103; nu ne oripil\u0103m, \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m despre obiceiurile oamenilor \u0219i accept\u0103m c\u0103 al\u021bii pot tr\u0103i altfel dec\u00e2t noi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ah, \u00eenc\u0103 ceva: singura persoan\u0103 care, eventual, ne accept\u0103 a\u0219a cum suntem, este mama.
C\u00e2nd, \u00een numele autenticit\u0103\u021bii, spunem orice g\u00e2nd ne trece prin cap f\u0103r\u0103 a filtra, f\u0103r\u0103 a analiza c\u00e2teva secunde dac\u0103 nu cumva \u00eei atac\u0103m pe ceilal\u021bi, \u00eei agres\u0103m, de fapt, ascundem grosol\u0103nia, lipsa manierelor, sub numele autenticit\u0103\u021bii. La fel cum, de multe ori, ascundem agresivitatea sub numele asertivit\u0103\u021bii. Dar acesta este un alt subiect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Weekly Inspiration scris de Georgeta Dendrino.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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