Ai avut vreodat\u0103 senza\u021bia c\u0103 ceilal\u021bi nu te \u00een\u021beleg, c\u0103 parc\u0103 e\u0219ti invizibil? \u021ai s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat s\u0103 spui ceva sensibil despre tine unor oameni \u0219i s\u0103 te love\u0219ti de un spate \u00eentors, de t\u0103cere, de un zid de non-empatie? Dac\u0103 ai trecut prin m\u0103car una dintre aceste experien\u021be, dac\u0103 ai avut m\u0103car una dintre aceste senza\u021bii, \u00ee\u021bi recomand aceast\u0103 carte. How to Know a Person este o carte plin\u0103 de exemple, de sugestii practice, un fel de ghid despre arta de a cunoa\u0219te, \u00een\u021belege pe ceilal\u021bi, astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 construim rela\u021bii mai bune at\u00e2t la birou, c\u00e2t \u0219i acas\u0103 sau cu prietenii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
David Brooks consider\u0103 c\u0103 \u201e\u00cen centrul rela\u021biilor bune \u00een familie, la \u0219coal\u0103, \u00een organiza\u021bii, comunitate, se afl\u0103 o abilitate esen\u021bial\u0103: aceea de a-i vedea pe ceilal\u021bi \u00een profunzime, de a-i face s\u0103 se simt\u0103 v\u0103zu\u021bi; aceasta \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 cuno\u0219ti cu acurate\u021be cealalt\u0103 persoan\u0103, s\u0103 o faci s\u0103 se simt\u0103 valorizat\u0103, auzit\u0103, \u00een\u021beleas\u0103.\u201d
Mul\u021bi vor spune: \u201eDa, ce mare lucru? \u0218tim asta!\u201d \u0218i totu\u0219i, c\u00e2t de pu\u021bini aplic\u0103m ceea ce \u0219tim? C\u00e2t de mul\u021bi oameni se simt nev\u0103zu\u021bi, neaprecia\u021bi, ne\u00een\u021bele\u0219i? Dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 \u00eei \u00een\u021belegi pe ceilal\u021bi, cum e bine s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi concentrezi aten\u021bia asupra lor? Ce tip de conversa\u021bii e recomandat s\u0103 ai? Cum e\u0219ti atent la povestea celuilalt?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A-i vedea cum se cuvine pe ceilal\u021bi este un act de crea\u021bie, sus\u021bine David Brooks. Cum s\u0103 te ui\u021bi \u00een ochii celuilalt \u0219i s\u0103 vezi ceva mai \u00eenalt, m\u0103re\u021b, \u00een el\/ea, \u0219i apoi s\u0103 te \u00eentorci c\u0103tre tine \u0219i s\u0103 vezi ceva mai mare, important \u0219i \u00een tine \u00eensu\u021bi? Iat\u0103 un tip de abordare ce ne poate ajuta s\u0103 avem conexiuni mai bune cu oamenii, s\u0103 fim \u00een\u021bele\u0219i \u0219i s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem mai bine fiecare individ cu care intr\u0103m \u00een rela\u021bie, fie ea de c\u00e2teva minute, de ani, de o via\u021b\u0103, fie profesional\u0103 sau personal\u0103. Dac\u0103 avem un gram \u00een plus de curiozitate \u0219i de generozitate, desigur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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