{"id":9240,"date":"2022-11-09T12:35:00","date_gmt":"2022-11-09T12:35:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=9240"},"modified":"2022-11-10T07:36:36","modified_gmt":"2022-11-10T07:36:36","slug":"street-angel-and-house-devil","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=9240","title":{"rendered":"Street Angel and House Devil"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"333\" height=\"500\" src=\"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/Alina.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6183 img-fluid\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/Alina.png 333w, https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/Alina-199x300.png 199w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 333px) 100vw, 333px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eZilele trecute am aflat o expresie irlandez\u0103 care mi-am pl\u0103cut la nebunie: street angel and house devil. Se refer\u0103 la un copil care se poart\u0103 frumos \u00een public, \u00eens\u0103 acas\u0103 le d\u0103 b\u0103t\u0103i de cap serioase alor lui. \u201cIat\u0103 o zical\u0103 ce i se potrive\u0219te m\u0103nu\u0219\u0103 Evei\u201d, mi-am zis eu, g\u00e2ndindu-m\u0103 la copilul meu num\u0103rul 2.<br>Fermec\u0103toare, dezinvolt\u0103 \u0219i amabil\u0103 \u00een majoritatea situa\u021biilor sociale, acas\u0103 Eva ne rezerv\u0103 privilegiul de a da fr\u00e2u liber temperamentului ei vulcanic \u0219i voluntar, ceea ce pe mine una m\u0103 amuz\u0103 \u0219i m\u0103 scoate din min\u021bi \u00een propor\u021bii aproximativ egale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>\u00cens\u0103 apoi m-am g\u00e2ndit c\u0103 \u0219i noi, adul\u021bii, putem fi deseori \u00eengeri pe strad\u0103 \u0219i diavoli acas\u0103. \u00cen public purt\u0103m diverse m\u0103\u0219ti, multe dintre ele explicabile \u0219i necesare socialmente. Dar acas\u0103 le d\u0103m jos, a\u0219a cum ne dezbr\u0103c\u0103m de hainele pe care le-am purtat toat\u0103 ziua, \u0219i ne permitem anumite libert\u0103\u021bi cu cei dragi despre care \u0219tim \u00een sinea noastr\u0103 c\u0103 nu ne fac, nici nou\u0103, nici lor, vreun bine \u2013 tocmai lor se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 s\u0103 le ar\u0103t\u0103m latura noastr\u0103 \u00eentunecat\u0103, impulsiv\u0103, revan\u0219ard\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>Am s\u0103 m\u0103 iau drept exemplu chiar pe mine: activitatea mea presupune s\u0103-mi petrec o bun\u0103 parte din timp \u00een fa\u021ba oamenilor; lucr\u00e2nd cu clien\u021bii s\u0103 \u00eemi pierd cump\u0103tul nu este niciodat\u0103 o op\u021biune. M\u0103 descurc destul de bine, dar iat\u0103 c\u0103, ajuns\u0103 acas\u0103, \u00eemi sare mu\u0219tarul pentru c\u0103 hainele uscate nu au fost \u00eempachetate conform sistemului meu (\u00een caz c\u0103 nu era clar, acesta este cel mai bun sistem din lume). Posibil s\u0103 avem cu to\u021bii exemple similare. Mecanismul din spate este unul de ap\u0103rare, se nume\u0219te desc\u0103rcarea pe o \u021bint\u0103 sigur\u0103 \u0219i un psiholog ar explica mult mai bine subtilit\u0103\u021bile lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>Ce putem face noi pentru a fi street angels \u0219i acas\u0103? \u00cen primul r\u00e2nd, s\u0103 con\u0219tientiz\u0103m momentele de desc\u0103rcare \u0219i s\u0103 reflect\u0103m asupra cauzei reale a frustr\u0103rii. Apoi, s\u0103 g\u0103sim variante mai constructive, mai adecvate de a ne elibera de tensiunea acumulat\u0103. Este ceva ce trebuie s\u0103 schimb\u0103m noi \u00een\u0219ine? Este nevoie de feedback, de o o clarificare a situa\u021biei care ne-a \u00eenc\u0103rcat? Este ceva ce putem face pentru a ne sim\u021bi mai bine, a ne re\u00eenc\u0103rca bateriile desc\u0103rcate peste zi \u2013 sport sau mi\u0219care \u00een aer liber, o activitate care ne face pl\u0103cere, pu\u021bin timp cu un prieten cu care nu am vorbit de mult?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>\u0218i nu \u00een ultimul r\u00e2nd, s\u0103 nu uit\u0103m s\u0103 facem depuneri periodice \u00een contul rela\u021biei cu cei dragi \u2013 s\u0103 le facem o mic\u0103 surpriz\u0103, s\u0103 le mul\u021bumim pentru ceva ce au f\u0103cut pentru noi, oric\u00e2t de m\u0103runt, s\u0103 le spunem c\u00e2t de mult \u00eei apreciem \u0219i ne bucur\u0103m c\u0103 sunt parte din via\u021ba noastr\u0103.\u201d<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Weekly Inspiration scris de Alina Doica.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201eZilele trecute am aflat o expresie irlandez\u0103 care mi-am pl\u0103cut la nebunie: street angel and house devil. Se refer\u0103 la un copil care se poart\u0103 frumos \u00een public, \u00eens\u0103 acas\u0103 le d\u0103&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[18],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9240"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9240"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9240\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9241,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9240\/revisions\/9241"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9240"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9240"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9240"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}