{"id":9212,"date":"2022-08-24T11:09:00","date_gmt":"2022-08-24T11:09:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=9212"},"modified":"2022-11-10T07:10:21","modified_gmt":"2022-11-10T07:10:21","slug":"cu-cicatrice-fara-cicatrice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=9212","title":{"rendered":"Cu cicatrice, f\u0103r\u0103 cicatrice"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"333\" height=\"344\" src=\"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/alina-doica2.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6508 img-fluid\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/alina-doica2.png 333w, https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/alina-doica2-290x300.png 290w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 333px) 100vw, 333px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Am pe um\u0103rul st\u00e2ng o cicatrice. Acum 10 ani, \u00eentr-o perioad\u0103 mai aventuroas\u0103 a vie\u021bii mele, am avut un accident de snowboard care s-a soldat cu o fractur\u0103 de um\u0103r, o opera\u021bie \u0219i o revizuire a direc\u021biei \u00een care mergeau lucrurile pentru mine. Din fericire, opera\u021bia a fost un succes, recuperarea de asemenea, a\u0219a c\u0103 am r\u0103mas doar cu cicatricea \u0219i cu o poveste interesant\u0103 de spus prietenilor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>\u00cemi amintesc c\u0103 la un moment dat, fiind la birou la o \u00eent\u00e2lnire de departament, una dintre colege m-a tras deoparte \u0219i mi-a atras aten\u021bia c\u0103 cicatricea este pu\u021bin inestetic\u0103 \u0219i \u201dnu se potrive\u0219te cu imaginea mea general\u0103\u201d. \u0218i c\u0103 poate ar trebui s\u0103 port doar haine cu m\u00e2nec\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>Recunosc, m-a surprins comentariul ei. Nu m-am sup\u0103rat, pentru c\u0103 a \u00eencercat s\u0103 fie amabil\u0103, \u0219i am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 inten\u021biile ei erau bune. Dar discu\u021bia m-a pus pe g\u00e2nduri. Cum ar trebui s\u0103 ne purt\u0103m cicatricile \u00een lume? C\u00e2t s\u0103 ar\u0103t\u0103m, c\u00e2t s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103luim? C\u00e2t s\u0103 fim \u201dautentici\u201d, \u0219i p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103 vulnerabili, \u0219i c\u00e2t s\u0103-i protej\u0103m pe ceilal\u021bi de un eventual disconfort, \u00een numele conven\u021biilor sociale?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>Eu port acea cicatrice cu m\u00e2ndrie \u0219i este o parte din mine care \u00eemi e drag\u0103. Nu este despre snowboard (nu sunt chiar un as \u00een domeniu \u0219i nici nu \u00eel practic at\u00e2t de des \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 m\u0103 reprezinte ca stil de via\u021b\u0103), ci este un reminder al unei perioade tulburi \u0219i dureroase din care am ie\u0219it, sper eu, mai bun\u0103.<br>Nu pledez pentru a ne exhiba cicatricile cu orice pre\u021b, dimpotriv\u0103. Cu siguran\u021b\u0103 nici s\u0103 le ascundem mereu \u0219i de oricine nu este prea s\u0103n\u0103tos. Cred c\u0103 a \u00eencerca s\u0103 g\u0103sim \u201dla juste mesure\u201d, cum spun francezii, poate fi un scop pe c\u00e2t de dificil, pe at\u00e2t de satisf\u0103c\u0103tor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>Weekly Inspiration scris de Alina Doica.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Am pe um\u0103rul st\u00e2ng o cicatrice. Acum 10 ani, \u00eentr-o perioad\u0103 mai aventuroas\u0103 a vie\u021bii mele, am avut un accident de snowboard care s-a soldat cu o fractur\u0103 de um\u0103r, o opera\u021bie&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[18],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9212"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9212"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9212\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9213,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9212\/revisions\/9213"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9212"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9212"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9212"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}