{"id":9199,"date":"2022-08-01T13:39:06","date_gmt":"2022-08-01T13:39:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=9199"},"modified":"2022-08-01T13:39:07","modified_gmt":"2022-08-01T13:39:07","slug":"respect","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=9199","title":{"rendered":"Respect!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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– A\u0219a a\u0219 vrea s\u0103 schimb medicul de familie! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– De ce?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– M-a deranjat tare lipsa de reac\u021bie a doctori\u021bei mele. Am sunat la cabinet s\u0103 \u00eei spun c\u0103 am covid, am vorbit cu asistenta, i-am spus ce m\u0103suri am luat, iar ea a zis c\u0103 m\u0103 sun\u0103 doamna doctor ca s\u0103 \u00eemi spun\u0103 dac\u0103 e bine sau nu, ce trebuie s\u0103 fac mai departe. Nu a mai sunat. A\u0219a o lips\u0103 de interes fa\u021b\u0103 de pacien\u021bi este inacceptabil\u0103.\u201d, a spus mama sup\u0103rat\u0103. Dac\u0103 eu o respect pe ea, m\u0103 port discret, nu abuzez de serviciile ei, m\u0103 a\u0219tept s\u0103 se poarte la fel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Respectul este un cuv\u00e2nt pe care, \u00een aceste vremuri, fiecare \u00eel interpreteaz\u0103 cum vrea, din p\u0103cate.\u201d I-am spus eu, cam cinic\u0103, recunosc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apoi i-am spus c\u0103 partea bun\u0103 e c\u0103 ea se simte deja mai bine \u0219i am schimbat subiectul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dex online ne spune c\u0103 respectul este \u201co atitudine sau un sentiment de stim\u0103, de considera\u021bie sau de pre\u021buire deosebit\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de cineva sau de ceva.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cum se manifest\u0103 acest respect? Iat\u0103 c\u00e2teva moduri:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Salu\u021bi pe cei pe care \u00eei cuno\u0219ti, la birou, la bloc, pe strad\u0103, sau c\u00e2nd intri \u00een magazin\/c\u00e2nd ie\u0219i din magazin. \u00cen multe \u021b\u0103ri v\u00e2nz\u0103torii salut\u0103 pe fiecare client \u00een parte. Recunosc c\u0103 am salutat \u00een Bucure\u0219ti \u0219i nu am primit niciun r\u0103spuns. Ce-o fi crezut doamna, c\u0103 sunt o ciudat\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vorbe\u0219ti cu dvs. cu cei cu care nu ai o rela\u021bie de \u2018tras de br\u0103cinari\u2019 sau cu care nu este stabilit de comun acord c\u0103 v\u0103 tutui\u021bi. C\u00e2nd v\u0103d la magazinele cu alimente cum li se adreseaz\u0103 unii v\u00e2nz\u0103toarelor sau casierilor, cu \u201ctu\u201d, r\u0103stit, arogant, chiar dac\u0103 diferen\u021ba de v\u00e2rst\u0103 este evident\u0103, m\u0103 uit \u00een jos, jenat\u0103 de lipsa de respect ar\u0103tat\u0103, \u0219i m\u0103 \u00eentreb de ce le permit s\u0103 le vorbeasc\u0103 astfel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 e\u0219ti \u00eentr-o \u00eent\u00e2lnire pe zoom cu colegii, e\u0219ti atent, prezent. Nu faci \u00een continuu altceva. \u0218tiu, mai apar urgen\u021be. Dar c\u00e2nd \u00een tot timpul \u00eent\u00e2lnirii tu te ui\u021bi evident la altceva, c\u00e2nd e\u0219ti prezent dar absent, de fapt, ar\u0103\u021bi c\u0103 nu prea te intereseaz\u0103, tu ai \u201cd\u2019autres chats a fouetter\u201d, \u201cother fishes to fry\u201d, iar ceilal\u021bi \u00ee\u0219i r\u0103cesc gura degeaba. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Te por\u021bi frumos cu cineva care te-a ajutat sau sus\u021binut. Este deja ceva at\u00e2t de obi\u0219nuit c\u0103 risc\u0103m s\u0103 ajungem s\u0103 ni se par\u0103 normal.  Nu, nu este \u00een regul\u0103 s\u0103 devii agresiv, dispre\u021buitor, arogant cu cei care \u021bi-au \u00eentins o m\u00e2n\u0103 de ajutor, au f\u0103cut ceva constructiv pentru tine. Nici c\u00e2nd ai primit acel \u201cdar\u201d, nici dup\u0103 o zi, o lun\u0103, un an, o via\u021b\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu min\u021bi pe cineva, crez\u00e2nd c\u0103 acea persoan\u0103 nu se prinde. A trata pe cineva ca \u0219i cum \u00eei lipsesc neuroni, arat\u0103 c\u00e2\u021bi ai tu, de fapt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2nd e\u0219ti la restaurant, vorbe\u0219ti discret, ca s\u0103 aud\u0103 doar cei de la masa ta. Nu e necesar s\u0103 aud\u0103 tot restaurantul sau toat\u0103 terasa. Am fost recent la un restaurant cu fine dining, \u00een Bucure\u0219ti. Era un cuplu care vorbea at\u00e2t de tare \u00eenc\u00e2t era greu ca ceilal\u021bi clien\u021bi s\u0103 aib\u0103 o conversa\u021bie \u00een lini\u0219te.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Folose\u0219ti parfumurile tari cu grij\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de cei cu care interac\u021bionezi, \u00een special dac\u0103 ve\u021bi fi \u00eentr-un spa\u021biu mic. Ador parfumurile, de toate felurile. \u00cens\u0103 de c\u00e2te ori c\u0103l\u0103toresc cu avionul, am grij\u0103 s\u0103 folosesc unul lejer, care s\u0103 nu ri\u0219te s\u0103 deranjeze pe ceilal\u021bi. Iar cantitatea este \u0219i ea esen\u021bial\u0103. E mai bine s\u0103 suger\u0103m dec\u00e2t s\u0103 sufoc\u0103m. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Evi\u021bi s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nci tone de usturoi \u00eenainte de a merge la birou, la film, teatru. Nu a gre\u0219it nimeni cu nimic ca s\u0103 suporte usturoiul care \u00ee\u021bi iese prin piele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ai grij\u0103 s\u0103 selectezi ce spui. Poate c\u0103 ne trec multe prin cap, \u00eens\u0103 e bine s\u0103 fim critici cu ceea ce g\u00e2ndim, nu tot trebuie s\u0103 fie auzit \u0219i de ceilal\u021bi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Desigur c\u0103 sunt multe alte exemple de manifest\u0103ri ale respectului.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Recunosc c\u0103 mi-ar pl\u0103cea o societate care s\u0103 aib\u0103 pu\u021bin din elegan\u021ba discursului \u0219i conversa\u021biilor unor personaje din serialul Downton Abbey.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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