{"id":9160,"date":"2022-05-17T08:33:28","date_gmt":"2022-05-17T08:33:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=9160"},"modified":"2022-05-17T08:33:28","modified_gmt":"2022-05-17T08:33:28","slug":"vrei-o-alta-perspectiva","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=9160","title":{"rendered":"Vrei o alt\u0103 perspectiv\u0103?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"333\" height=\"344\" src=\"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/alina-doica1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6505 img-fluid\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/alina-doica1.png 333w, https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/alina-doica1-290x300.png 290w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 333px) 100vw, 333px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Stai de vorb\u0103 cu un copil sau cu un adolescent. Am primit recent invita\u021bia de a le vorbi unor studen\u021bi la \u0219tiin\u021bele educa\u021biei despre meseria mea. Preg\u0103tindu-m\u0103 pentru acea \u00eent\u00e2lnire, \u00eentrebat-o pe fata mea de 12 ani ce crede c\u0103 vor vrea ace\u0219tia s\u0103 \u0219tie \u0219i ce \u00eentreb\u0103ri vor pune. Dup\u0103 o scurt\u0103 pauz\u0103 de reflec\u021bie, mi-a spus: \u201dProbabil c\u0103 vor fi unul sau doi acolo care chiar sunt interesa\u021bi de ce faci (?) \u0219i ei o s\u0103 te \u00eentrebe cum ai ajuns s\u0103 faci asta, ce \u021bi se pare interesant, sau enervant, dac\u0103 ai fost altceva \u00eenainte sau dac\u0103 ai f\u0103cut o \u0219coal\u0103 anume. Apoi, v\u0103z\u00e2nd c\u0103 le vorbe\u0219ti deschis, \u00eencet-\u00eencet vor fi \u0219i ceilal\u021bi interesa\u021bi\u201d.<br>A continuat a\u0219a pre\u021b de c\u00e2teva minute, dup\u0103 care a \u00eencheiat cu un \u201d\u0219i cam astea ar fi \u00eentreb\u0103rile de baz\u0103\u201d, semn c\u0103 exist\u0103 un nivel urm\u0103tor de complexitate la care a\u0219 face bine s\u0103 m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc \u0219i singur\u0103, mul\u021bumim frumos. Asta nu \u00eenainte de a preciza: \u201dA, \u0219i vor vrea s\u0103 \u0219tie dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi trebuie anumite calit\u0103\u021bi, sau po\u021bi fi un om random care se treze\u0219te \u00eentr-o zi c\u0103 vrea s\u0103 fie trainer\u201d (a\u021bi fi surprin\u0219i).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>Mi-a f\u0103cut pl\u0103cere aceast\u0103 mic\u0103 conversa\u021bie, din mai multe motive. \u00cen primul r\u00e2nd ca p\u0103rinte, fiindc\u0103 am ajuns la etapa \u00een care accesul la ce se afl\u0103 \u00een mintea \u0219i sufletul copilului nu mai este nici pe departe nelimitat \u2013 \u0219i dac\u0103 ave\u021bi adolescen\u021bi prin preajm\u0103, \u0219ti\u021bi cu siguran\u021b\u0103 la ce m\u0103 refer. \u00cen al doilea r\u00e2nd ca trainer de abilit\u0103\u021bi de vorbire \u00een public, am apreciat consisten\u021ba listei de \u00eentreb\u0103ri ce ar putea veni din public \u0219i intui\u021bia c\u0103 este nevoie de captatio benevolentiae \u2013 premisa c\u0103 va trebui s\u0103 le c\u00e2\u0219tig interesul, iar acest lucru se va \u00eent\u00e2mpla dac\u0103 m\u0103 voi referi la experien\u021ba \u0219i perspectivele mele (\u201dei vor vrea s\u0103 \u0219tie care e povestea ta\u201d). \u0218i nu \u00een ultimul r\u00e2nd ca om, pentru c\u0103 mi s-a p\u0103rut un bun exemplu de g\u00e2ndire critic\u0103 din partea ei, adic\u0103 \u00een esen\u021b\u0103 de a pune \u00eentreb\u0103rile potrivite \u2013 o abilitate pe care \u00eemi doresc mult s\u0103 \u0219i-o dezvolte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>Nu stric\u0103 s\u0103 ne cultiv\u0103m un anume tip de curiozitate transgenera\u021bional\u0103, indiferent dac\u0103 o facem din motive prgamatice sau doar ca gimnastic\u0103 mental\u0103, cu at\u00e2t mai mult cu c\u00e2t ritmul \u00een care se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 lucrurile s-a tot accelerat. Nevoia de a r\u0103m\u00e2ne \u00een pas cu timpurile exist\u0103, la fel cum exist\u0103 \u0219i capcana lui \u201dpe vremea mea\u201d, iar astfel de momente \u00een care putem crea pun\u021bi de comunicare \u0219i putem primi alte perspective sunt pe c\u00e2t de pre\u021bioase, pe at\u00e2t de la \u00eendem\u00e2n\u0103.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Weekly Inspiration scris de Alina Doica.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Stai de vorb\u0103 cu un copil sau cu un adolescent. Am primit recent invita\u021bia de a le vorbi unor studen\u021bi la \u0219tiin\u021bele educa\u021biei despre meseria mea. 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