{"id":9045,"date":"2022-01-14T12:10:42","date_gmt":"2022-01-14T12:10:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=9045"},"modified":"2022-01-14T12:10:43","modified_gmt":"2022-01-14T12:10:43","slug":"weekly-inspiration-27","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=9045","title":{"rendered":"Weekly Inspiration"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"333\" height=\"500\" src=\"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/lucian-mihai1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7944 img-fluid\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/lucian-mihai1.png 333w, https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/lucian-mihai1-199x300.png 199w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 333px) 100vw, 333px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Pe fereastra ghi\u0219eului poli\u021biei de frontier\u0103 din aeroportul Luxemburg scrie cu litere de-o \u0219chioap\u0103 \u00een 3 limbi de circula\u021bie interna\u021bional\u0103: \u201eghi\u0219eul se deschide cu o or\u0103 \u00eenaintea zborului\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Captivi \u00eentre zona de duty-free \u0219i sala de a\u0219teptare pentru \u00eembarcare, majoritatea c\u0103l\u0103torilor zborului c\u0103tre Bucure\u0219ti \u00eencep sa fie nelini\u0219ti\u021bi. Mai este o or\u0103 \u0219i jum\u0103tate p\u00e2n\u0103 la ora decol\u0103rii. O domni\u0219oar\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i sun\u0103 un prieten, vorbe\u0219te \u00een rom\u00e2n\u0103. \u00cel \u00eentreab\u0103 ce sa fac\u0103, c\u0103ci ea e blocat\u0103 \u00een aeroport. \u00cen timp ce vorbe\u0219te cu un ton u\u0219or \u00eengrijorat, scaneaz\u0103 tichetul de \u00eembarcare la toate ma\u0219inile automate de control pa\u0219apoarte electronice ce au afi\u0219at semnul X cu ro\u0219u, semn c\u0103 sunt \u00eenchise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O doamn\u0103 \u00eentre dou\u0103 v\u00e2rste, cu cartea de identitate rom\u00e2neasc\u0103 la vedere, se uit\u0103 de mai multe ori la ghi\u0219eu \u0219i apoi se \u00eentoarce c\u0103tre un grup de persoane care a\u0219teapt\u0103 pe scaune \u0219i arunc\u0103 o \u00eentrebare retoric\u0103: we must wait, no? Ceilal\u021bi \u00eencuviin\u021beaz\u0103 tacit, unii oft\u00e2nd, al\u021bii d\u00e2ndu-\u0219i ochii peste cap. Doamna se tr\u00e2nte\u0219te pe unul dintre scaunele r\u0103mase libere \u0219i cu emfaz\u0103 \u0219i cu un ton calibrat pentru \u00eentreaga sal\u0103 spune \u201dwhat a country!&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aici m\u0103 apuc\u0103 r\u00e2sul \u0219i m\u0103 bucur c\u0103 port masca pentru c\u0103 mi-e team\u0103 c\u0103 lipsa mea de empatie fa\u021b\u0103 de tr\u0103irile \u0219i opiniile doamnei ar fi putut avea repercusiuni. Sunt la al patrulea zbor din Luxemburg c\u0103tre Bucure\u0219ti \u0219i am observat de fiecare dat\u0103, \u00een diferite feluri, natura anxioas\u0103 \u0219i u\u0219or nevrotic\u0103 a multor compatrio\u021bi. Sunt sigur c\u0103 a\u021bi v\u0103zut \u0219i voi comportamente similare \u00een care frica de a pierde locul la r\u00e2nd \u0219i pe cel din avion duce la genuflexiuni de grup perfect sincronizate \u00een secunda doi \u00een care doamna de la \u00eembarcare e gata s\u0103 apese butonul microfonului pentru a face anun\u021bul. Probabil coment\u0103m de multe ori aceste anxiet\u0103\u021bi \u0219i comportamente asociate, acest permanent \u201ecu sufletul la gur\u0103\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am observat c\u0103 \u00een aceste discu\u021bii sunt urmate de exclama\u021bii admirativ invidioase &#8216;adresate unui vest generic \u00een care spaniolii, francezii, italienii, nem\u021bii \u0219i suedezii sunt amesteca\u021bi f\u0103r\u0103 nicio emo\u021bie: \u201euite m\u0103 \u0103\u0219tia \u00een vest, cum nu se streseaz\u0103 ei, ce lini\u0219ti\u021bi sunt ei, ce calmi&#8230;\u201d \u0219i apoi, aproape invariabil e afirmat\u0103 cauza, clar\u0103, singular\u0103, cert\u0103: e de la s\u0103r\u0103cie. \u0102ia sunt boga\u021bi, noi suntem s\u0103raci, plini de griji, de-asta e a\u0219a, sigur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am \u00eencercat de mai multe ori s\u0103 o pun la \u00eendoial\u0103, s\u0103 sugerez c\u0103 se leag\u0103 de istorie, educa\u021bie, rural, geografie, cultur\u0103 etc. Uneori am avut succes, am mai zis de Italia, Israel, \u021b\u0103ri mai bogate dec\u00e2t noi dar cu tr\u0103s\u0103turi nevrotice similare. Dar toate acestea nu au priz\u0103 ca s\u0103r\u0103cia. A\u0219a c\u0103 mai adaug o observa\u021bie. C\u00e2nd oamenii sunt anxio\u0219i pe aeroport ca s\u0103 nu piard\u0103 locul sau se pl\u00e2ng cu voce tare c\u0103 \u201dce fac m\u0103 \u0103\u0219tia aici, c\u00e2t ne \u021bin?\u201d, ei fiind \u00een aeroport la Doha c\u0103ut\u00e2nd \u00eenfierb\u00e2nta\u021bi \u0219i nelini\u0219ti\u021bi conexiunea cu Maldive, tot de la s\u0103r\u0103cie e? Ie\u0219ind din zona aeroportuar\u0103 \u0219i apropiindu-ne de zona organiza\u021bional\u0103 din marile companii unde e greu de sus\u021binut c\u0103 s\u0103r\u0103cia e prezent\u0103, \u00eent\u00e2lnesc destul de des lume cu \u201esufletul la gur\u0103\u201d, anxietatea e vizibil\u0103 \u0219i se manifest\u0103 uneori ca \u00een aeroport.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu cred c\u0103 poate fi doar din cauza mediului competitiv \u0219i al presiunii. Stresul e universal, dar manifest\u0103rile sale \u0219i comportamentele asociate sunt totu\u0219i culturale. Pe de alt\u0103 parte, cred c\u0103 \u201evindecarea\u201d se face individual.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Weekly Inspiration scris de&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lucian.m.mihai?__cft__[0]=AZUw1KNMiYTAKqOe46_c7ErEcbJFf6QAT2OdQUO2Es6iY5ltaHfTKf50KeC07Io4BJPPHEWoXh2OkT4HMPM-MIbA4TYHuRr8jRozq710GwiXNCKR3a1K4SeSqmUPokwZv5Bl9BRMPUNGk-bZu_0iIZ1OL0UR_70wKTVgHyiwsWOFJZPYDlIfFA7GyJ1MfXfWci8&amp;__tn__=-]K*F\">Lucian Mihai<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/hashtag\/interacters?__eep__=6&amp;__cft__[0]=AZUw1KNMiYTAKqOe46_c7ErEcbJFf6QAT2OdQUO2Es6iY5ltaHfTKf50KeC07Io4BJPPHEWoXh2OkT4HMPM-MIbA4TYHuRr8jRozq710GwiXNCKR3a1K4SeSqmUPokwZv5Bl9BRMPUNGk-bZu_0iIZ1OL0UR_70wKTVgHyiwsWOFJZPYDlIfFA7GyJ1MfXfWci8&amp;__tn__=*NK*F\">#interacters<\/a><br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/hashtag\/enablingchange?__eep__=6&amp;__cft__[0]=AZUw1KNMiYTAKqOe46_c7ErEcbJFf6QAT2OdQUO2Es6iY5ltaHfTKf50KeC07Io4BJPPHEWoXh2OkT4HMPM-MIbA4TYHuRr8jRozq710GwiXNCKR3a1K4SeSqmUPokwZv5Bl9BRMPUNGk-bZu_0iIZ1OL0UR_70wKTVgHyiwsWOFJZPYDlIfFA7GyJ1MfXfWci8&amp;__tn__=*NK*F\">#enablingchange<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pe fereastra ghi\u0219eului poli\u021biei de frontier\u0103 din aeroportul Luxemburg scrie cu litere de-o \u0219chioap\u0103 \u00een 3 limbi de circula\u021bie interna\u021bional\u0103: \u201eghi\u0219eul se deschide cu o or\u0103 \u00eenaintea zborului\u201d. 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