{"id":9043,"date":"2022-01-14T12:09:14","date_gmt":"2022-01-14T12:09:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=9043"},"modified":"2022-01-14T12:09:15","modified_gmt":"2022-01-14T12:09:15","slug":"atentie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=9043","title":{"rendered":"Aten\u021bie!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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\u201eDac\u0103 ne privim cu seriozitate, vedem ce greu e s\u0103 fim aten\u021bi, ce incapabili suntem de o d\u0103ruire total\u0103. C\u00e2nd st\u0103m de vorb\u0103 cu un om, n-avem r\u0103bdarea s\u0103-l ascult\u0103m, suntem incapabili de aten\u021bie \u0219i imediat, cu o mare violen\u021b\u0103, n\u0103v\u0103lim cu personalitatea noastr\u0103, cu ideile noastre. Noi nu tr\u0103im realitatea, ci nevoia noastr\u0103 stupid\u0103 de a ne demonstra personalitatea.\u201d (Teodor Mazilu)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce spune aici Teodor Mazilu at\u00e2t de vehement \u0219i de clar e foarte dificil, de fapt, de recunoscut \u00een via\u021ba real\u0103. Noi cu to\u021bii avem, mai des dec\u00e2t trebuie, o problem\u0103 de aten\u021bie. Iar prin aten\u021bie nu m\u0103 refer la analiza atent\u0103 \u0219i \u00eendelungat\u0103, la introspec\u021bia nesf\u00e2r\u0219it\u0103, la despicarea firului \u00een patru; \u0219i nici la luciditatea rece, neasumat\u0103, distan\u021bat\u0103 de fapte \u0219i de oameni. Ci la con\u0219tiin\u021ba treaz\u0103 pe care ar trebui s\u0103 o avem \u00een fa\u021ba oric\u0103rei \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103ri. M\u0103 refer la a fi prezent \u0219i disponibil s\u0103 ascul\u021bi, \u00eenainte de toate \u0219i, mai ales \u00eenainte de a vorbi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mi se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 uneori, \u0219i nu mi-e u\u0219or s-o recunosc, s\u0103 fac aceea\u0219i gre\u0219eal\u0103. C\u00e2nd un prieten \u00eemi poveste\u0219te despre o problem\u0103 sau c\u00e2nd pur \u0219i simplu \u00eemi \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219e\u0219te o p\u0103rere, mie \u00eemi vine imediat \u00een minte ce a\u0219 face eu sau cum mi-ar pl\u0103cea mie s\u0103 fie lucrurile. Uit, \u00eentr-o secund\u0103, c\u0103 nu EU sunt subiectul \u00een propozi\u021bie. Desigur, \u00eentr-o rela\u021bie de prietenie acesta nu-i un motiv de sup\u0103rare (…dec\u00e2t dac\u0103 nu cumva e mult prea des), dar \u00eentr-o situa\u021bie profesional\u0103 am observat, din relat\u0103rile clien\u021bilor mei, c\u0103 lucrurile pot duce la alunec\u0103ri de teren destul de grave. Pentru c\u0103 \u00een acest caz specific, colaborarea trebuie s\u0103 fie eficient\u0103, nu este o simpl\u0103 conversa\u021bie f\u0103r\u0103 urm\u0103ri, ca \u00eentre prieteni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cum ob\u021binem, a\u0219adar, acest nivel de aten\u021bie, cum ajungem s\u0103 d\u0103m la o parte filtrul pe care ego-ul ni-l instaleaz\u0103 cu dib\u0103cie \u00een fa\u021ba ochilor (\u0219i care nu-i neap\u0103rat nociv dec\u00e2t dac\u0103 e prea opac)?
V\u0103 las pe voi s\u0103 fi\u021bi aten\u021bi la asta.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Weekly Inspiration scris de Simona Noapte\u015f<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201eDac\u0103 ne privim cu seriozitate, vedem ce greu e s\u0103 fim aten\u021bi, ce incapabili suntem de o d\u0103ruire total\u0103. C\u00e2nd st\u0103m de vorb\u0103 cu un om, n-avem r\u0103bdarea s\u0103-l ascult\u0103m, suntem incapabili…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[18],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9043"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9043"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9043\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9044,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9043\/revisions\/9044"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9043"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9043"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9043"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}