{"id":8939,"date":"2020-12-08T12:29:15","date_gmt":"2020-12-08T12:29:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=8939"},"modified":"2020-12-08T12:29:15","modified_gmt":"2020-12-08T12:29:15","slug":"trateaza-i-pe-ceilalti-ca-si-cum-sunt-cea-mai-buna-versiune-a-lor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=8939","title":{"rendered":"Trateaz\u0103-i pe ceilal\u021bi ca \u0219i cum sunt cea mai bun\u0103 versiune a lor!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?attachment_id=8940\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8940\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-8940 img-fluid\" title=\"WhatsApp Image 2020-11-12 at 15.36.42\" src=\"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/WhatsApp-Image-2020-11-12-at-15.36.42-682x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"682\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/WhatsApp-Image-2020-11-12-at-15.36.42-682x1024.jpg 682w, https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/WhatsApp-Image-2020-11-12-at-15.36.42-199x300.jpg 199w, https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/WhatsApp-Image-2020-11-12-at-15.36.42.jpeg 1066w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 682px) 100vw, 682px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u201dPoate v\u0103 aminti\u021bi de filmul \u201dMy Fair Lady\u201d. Un celebru profesor de fonetic\u0103 pune pariu cu un amic c\u0103 poate transforma o fat\u0103 din clasa de jos, f\u0103r\u0103 educa\u021bie, astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 fie perceput\u0103 ca apar\u021bin\u00e2nd \u00eenaltei societ\u0103\u021bi. Subiectul s\u0103u este Eliza Doolittle, care este de acord s\u0103 ia lec\u021bii de vorbire, s\u0103 se supun\u0103 ac\u021biunilor de transformare ale profesorului. Opera\u021biunea reu\u0219e\u0219te, toat\u0103 lumea e fericit\u0103, chiar dac\u0103 parcursul nu a fost f\u0103r\u0103 peripe\u021bii.<\/p>\n<p>Practic, este vorba despre cineva care a \u00eendr\u0103znit s\u0103 cread\u0103 c\u0103 o persoan\u0103 poate deveni cea mai bun\u0103 versiune a sa, s\u0103 fac\u0103 ceva \u00een acest sens, iar acea \u2018profe\u021bie\u2019 s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat. Teoreticienii vorbesc despre efectul Pygmalion: dac\u0103 trat\u0103m pe cineva ca \u0219i cum este cea mai rea versiune a sa, \u0219ansele de a deveni a\u0219a, sunt mari. Dac\u0103 trat\u0103m o persoan\u0103 pun\u00e2nd \u00een valoare partea sa luminoas\u0103, valoroas\u0103, acea parte va cre\u0219te, vom avea o Eliza Doolittle a zilelor noastre. Putem s\u0103 facem \u00eens\u0103 acest lucru cu c\u00e2teva condi\u021bii:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Persoana r\u0103spunde la provocare \u00eentr-un mod pozitiv.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Nu cultiv\u0103m ego-ul persoanei; riscul, din ce am v\u0103zut, \u00een realitate, este ca persoana s\u0103 ajung\u0103 s\u0103 se cread\u0103 cu stea \u00een frunte \u0219i s\u0103 se poarte mai ur\u00e2t, s\u0103 considere c\u0103 i se cuvin diverse.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; S\u0103 ne retrangem c\u00e2nd cel\u0103lalt r\u0103spunde inadecvat. Altfel, \u00eencuraj\u0103m derapaje, cultul orgoliului nem\u0103surat, credin\u021ba unora c\u0103 ei sunt centrul universului, p\u0103rerile lor \u0219i numai ale lor sunt valide.<\/p>\n<p>Cred c\u0103 e bine s\u0103 trat\u0103m oamenii cu \u00eencredere, cu grij\u0103, cu empatie, bunavoin\u021b\u0103, s\u0103 \u00eei sus\u021binem, s\u0103 \u00eei ajut\u0103m ca s\u0103 le creasc\u0103 aripi. \u00cen acela\u0219i timp, s\u0103 facem un pas \u00een lateral c\u00e2nd ace\u0219tia \u00eencep s\u0103 arunce cu noroi \u00een noi, c\u00e2nd nu apreciaz\u0103 ce primesc.<\/p>\n<p>M\u0103car o vreme, poate c\u0103, dac\u0103 nu mai primesc, v\u0103d c\u0103 generozitatea, \u00eencrederea investit\u0103 de cineva \u00een noi nu sunt la liber, necondi\u021bionate, c\u0103 dac\u0103 nu le apreciem, le putem pierde de tot.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Weekly Inspiration scris de Georgeta Dendrino.<\/p>\n<p>#enablingchange<br \/>\n#interacters<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201dPoate v\u0103 aminti\u021bi de filmul \u201dMy Fair Lady\u201d. 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