{"id":8920,"date":"2020-11-03T13:40:29","date_gmt":"2020-11-03T13:40:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=8920"},"modified":"2020-11-03T13:40:29","modified_gmt":"2020-11-03T13:40:29","slug":"idk-ly-ttyl-lol-wtf-bnt-cf-frm-np-%f0%9f%91-%8d%f0%9f%99-%88%f0%9f%a4-%94%f0%9f%92-%aa%f0%9f%a4%a6%e2%80%8d%e2%99%80%ef%b8%8f-%f0%9f%98-%ac%f0%9f%a4-%97%f0%9f%98-%98%f0%9f%99","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=8920","title":{"rendered":"Idk, LY, TTYL, LOL, WTF, bnt, cf, frm, np"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\u201dPoate a\u021bi \u00eent\u00e2lnit, folosit aceste prescurt\u0103ri, aceste emoticoane la mod\u0103 acum. Dac\u0103 nu, nu \u0219tiu ce s\u0103 zic, dar unii ar spune c\u0103 s\u00eente\u021bi de la 1700, toamna (am auzit eu asta c\u00e2nd am \u00eentrebat ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 ceva de mai sus).<\/p>\n

Dincolo de prescurt\u0103ri \u00eens\u0103, cuvintele pot c\u0103p\u0103ta multe \u00eenc\u0103rc\u0103turi \u00een online. Fie c\u0103 s\u00eentem pe email, pe whatsapp sau coment\u0103m \u00een social media, e bine s\u0103 fim mult mai aten\u021bi la cum folosim limbajul. O \u00eentrebare pus\u0103 \u00een scris, chiar dac\u0103 e clar\u0103, concis\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 vreo inten\u021bie negativ\u0103, poate fi perceput\u0103 ca agresiv\u0103, nepotrivit\u0103, de c\u0103tre recipient. Acesta va interpreta tonul mesajului nostru \u00een cheia \u00een care el era \u00een momentul primirii mesajului: o zi bun\u0103, cu realiz\u0103ri, valid\u0103ri va conduce la un teren fertil pentru interpret\u0103ri cu tent\u0103 pozitiv\u0103, amuzant\u0103, sau cel pu\u0219in neutr\u0103.<\/p>\n

O zi proast\u0103, cu ne\u00een\u021belegeri \u00een via\u021ba personal\u0103 sau profesional\u0103, cu nervi la volan sau cu cineva care nu poart\u0103 masc\u0103 \u0219i se uit\u0103 peste um\u0103rul nostru la r\u00e2nd la supermarket, va face ca terenul s\u0103 fie unul acid, reactiv, iar orice mesaj s\u0103 fie interpretat \u00eentr-o cheie negativ\u0103, agresant\u0103, intrusiv\u0103. <\/p>\n

Dincolo \u00eens\u0103 de aceste aspecte, senza\u021bia este de s\u0103r\u0103cire a limbajului. Ne exprim\u0103m concis, prin prescurt\u0103ri, e mai simplu dec\u00e2t s\u0103 scriem un mesaj mai elaborat, cu considera\u021bie fa\u021b\u0103 de cel\u0103lalt. Eu am observat chiar c\u0103 textele \u00een care chiar transmit ceva mai complex r\u0103m\u00e2n f\u0103r\u0103 r\u0103spuns sau primesc un emoticon. Ma g\u00e2ndesc cum s\u0103 formulez un mesaj de mai multe r\u00e2nduri, cum s\u0103 transmit clar \u0219i elegant ce am de spus, iar cealalt\u0103 persoan\u0103 r\u0103spunde sec, cu un emoticon. Asta \u00een cazul fericit \u00een care r\u0103spunde \u0219i nu \u2018\u00eemi d\u0103 cu seen\u2019.<\/p>\n

Ma g\u00e2ndesc uneori: nu \u0219tie ce s\u0103 zic\u0103?; nu are timp?; nu \u00eei pas\u0103?; nu conteaz\u0103?; nu vrea s\u0103 spun\u0103 nimic?; s\u0103 mai scriu a\u0219a?; s\u0103 r\u0103spund la fel?; s\u0103 nu mai scriu acestor persoane, ci s\u0103 le vorbesc? Asta e tot? M\u0103 las\u0103 cu ochii \u00een soare? E clar c\u0103 s\u00eentem fiecare \u00een filmul din capul lui, c\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103rile de a ne g\u00e2ndi la cum ar putea percepe celalalte persoane comunicarea noastr\u0103 s\u00eent foarte slabe.<\/p>\n

Desigur c\u0103 \u0219i eu folosesc toate abrevierile, emoticoanele de mai sus \u0219i altele, \u00een plus, mai ales c\u00e2nd m\u0103 gr\u0103besc, \u00eemi e lene s\u0103 elaborez o propozi\u021bie sau c\u00e2nd \u0219tiu c\u0103 interlocutorul a\u0219a comunic\u0103. Poate c\u0103 e firesc s\u0103 folosim de toate. S\u00eent ingrediente noi \u00een comunicare, e ca atunci c\u00e2nd introduci \u00eentr-o m\u00e2ncare tradi\u021bional\u0103 un condiment nou. Dac\u0103 pui \u00eens\u0103 prea mult, iese prost. M\u0103sura cu care facem lucrurile, adecvarea la context, fac diferen\u021ba (ca s\u0103 \u00eenchei \u00eentr-o not\u0103 de limbaj calchiat din englez\u0103). Iar dac\u0103 \u0219tii c\u0103 cineva nu apreciaz\u0103 sarea \u00een mancare, nu pui. Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi pas\u0103, desigur.\u201d<\/p>\n

Weekly Inspiration scris de Georgeta Dendrino.<\/p>\n

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\u201dPoate a\u021bi \u00eent\u00e2lnit, folosit aceste prescurt\u0103ri, aceste emoticoane la mod\u0103 acum. Dac\u0103 nu, nu \u0219tiu ce s\u0103 zic, dar unii ar spune c\u0103 s\u00eente\u021bi de la 1700, toamna (am auzit eu asta…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[18],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8920"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8920"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8920\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8924,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8920\/revisions\/8924"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8920"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8920"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8920"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}