{"id":8903,"date":"2020-09-08T13:52:09","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T13:52:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=8903"},"modified":"2020-09-08T13:52:09","modified_gmt":"2020-09-08T13:52:09","slug":"de-ce-o-iei-personal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=8903","title":{"rendered":"De ce o iei personal?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?attachment_id=8904\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8904\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/CFE953D0-FED3-4175-AD41-88B80E96C4D3.jpeg\" alt=\"\" title=\"CFE953D0-FED3-4175-AD41-88B80E96C4D3\" width=\"940\" height=\"1024\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8904 img-fluid\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/CFE953D0-FED3-4175-AD41-88B80E96C4D3.jpeg 940w, https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/CFE953D0-FED3-4175-AD41-88B80E96C4D3-275x300.jpg 275w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 940px) 100vw, 940px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u201cAm primit, am auzit des aceast\u0103 \u00eentrebare. M-a cam enervat de fiecare dat\u0103. Cum adic\u0103? Cum altfel s\u0103 o iau? Impersonal? C\u00e2nd e vorba despre mine, o ac\u021biune a mea, nu \u00een\u021beleg cum s\u0103 \u2018o iau\u2019.<br \/>\n\u00cen\u021beleg c\u0103 nu totul st\u0103 \u00een puterea noastr\u0103. C\u0103 nu putem noi influen\u021ba at\u00e2t de mult pe ceilal\u021bi. C\u0103, dac\u0103 cineva vrea s\u0103 plece, va pleca, oric\u00e2t de multe am fi f\u0103cut noi pentru acea persoan\u0103. Dac\u0103 cineva vrea s\u0103 se poarte ur\u00e2t, o va face, dincolo de orice am fi f\u0103cut noi pentru acest cineva.<br \/>\nAm f\u0103cut foarte multe, din perspectiva mea, pentru al\u021bii, \u00een momente grele pentru ei, iar unii au g\u0103sit de cuviin\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 se poarte ur\u00e2t, \u00een schimb. <\/p>\n<p>De ce o iau personal? Pentru c\u0103 am investit \u00een acele rela\u021bii, \u00een acele persoane. Pentru c\u0103, dincolo de bani, e vorba de timpul \u0219i energia mea, emo\u021bia mea, nu ale altcuiva, iar acestea s\u00eent at\u00e2t de personale, tocmai pentru c\u0103 nu le recuperez.<br \/>\nAm analizat \u00eens\u0103 situa\u021biile. Durerea a venit \u0219i cu \u00een\u021belegere \u0219i repozitionare. Sigur, ceva ce a f\u0103cut o persoan\u0103 spune mai mult despre ea; \u00eens\u0103 dac\u0103 am ales acea persoan\u0103, e bine s\u0103 m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc \u0219i ce m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 o aleg. Care au fost semnalele pe care mi le-a dat (exist\u0103 \u00eentotdeauna) dar pe care eu am refuzat s\u0103 le v\u0103d?<br \/>\nSigur, s\u00eent \u0219i situa\u021bii \u00een care, \u00eenainte de a o lua personal, e bine s\u0103 clarific\u0103m ce a vrut s\u0103 spun\u0103, s\u0103 fac\u0103 cealalt\u0103 persoan\u0103. Exista \u0219i riscul c\u0103 noi s\u0103 ne sim\u021bim ataca\u021bi desi nu aceea era inten\u021bia; \u00eens\u0103 sensibilitatea noastr\u0103, care are alte cauze uneori, ne face s\u0103 reac\u021bion\u0103m inadecvat. Atunci putem clarifica lucrurile \u0219i s\u0103 mergem mai departe. <\/p>\n<p>Abordarea de tip zen, \u00een care scoatem orice atac, nedreptate, \u00een afara noastr\u0103, \u0219i le trat\u0103m obiectiv, este una la care nu cred c\u0103 ajungem p\u00e2n\u0103 mai t\u0103rziu \u00een aceasta via\u021b\u0103.<br \/>\nP\u00e2n\u0103 atunci s\u00eentem subiectivi, emo\u021bionali, avem a\u0219tept\u0103ri, sensibilit\u0103\u021bi mari, nevoia de dreptate, de a fi trata\u021bi just, gre\u0219im, ne cerem iertare, ne bucur\u0103m enorm, ne sup\u0103r\u0103m la fel, ne m\u00e2niem, ne \u00eemp\u0103c\u0103m, ne dau lacrimi de bucurie.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Weekly Inspiration scris de Georgeta Dendrino.<\/p>\n<p>#interacters<br \/>\n#enablingchange<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cAm primit, am auzit des aceast\u0103 \u00eentrebare. M-a cam enervat de fiecare dat\u0103. Cum adic\u0103? Cum altfel s\u0103 o iau? Impersonal? C\u00e2nd e vorba despre mine, o ac\u021biune a mea, nu \u00een\u021beleg&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[18],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8903"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8903"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8903\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8906,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8903\/revisions\/8906"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8903"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8903"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8903"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}