{"id":8888,"date":"2020-08-18T11:30:07","date_gmt":"2020-08-18T11:30:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=8888"},"modified":"2020-08-18T11:30:07","modified_gmt":"2020-08-18T11:30:07","slug":"%e2%80%98culegi-ce-ai-semanat%e2%80%99-sau-despre-rabdare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=8888","title":{"rendered":"\u2018Culegi ce ai sem\u0103nat\u2019 sau despre r\u0103bdare"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\u201dC\u00e2nd eram mic\u0103, petreceam mult timp la \u021bar\u0103. Bunicii mei aveau ceva p\u0103m\u00e2nt undeva, la c\u00e2mp, \u0219i o gr\u0103din\u0103 destul de mare acas\u0103. Prim\u0103vara, devreme, era timpul \u00eens\u0103m\u00e2n\u021b\u0103rii. Era mult\u0103 activitate atunci, mult\u0103 v\u00e2nzoleal\u0103. Apoi udau p\u0103m\u00e2ntul periodic, ca s\u0103 se asigure c\u0103 semin\u021bele \u00eencol\u021besc.<\/p>\n

Trebuia sa aib\u0103 grij\u0103 mare, s\u0103 nu pun\u0103 nici prea mult\u0103 ap\u0103, ca s\u0103 \u00eenece semin\u021bele, nici prea pu\u021bin\u0103, ca s\u0103 nu ajung\u0103 la ele. C\u00e2nd ploua, se bucurau, \u00eei scutea de un udat. Era ca un cadou de la cer. Dar aveau o anume disciplin\u0103 \u00een a avea grij\u0103 de ceea ce \u00eens\u0103m\u00e2n\u021bau. Apoi, aveau r\u0103bdare s\u0103 creasc\u0103 plantele. Nu se pl\u00e2ngeau c\u0103 nu cresc suficient de repede, c\u0103 nu le r\u0103spunde mai repede p\u0103m\u00e2ntul, s\u0103m\u00e2n\u021ba. \u00cencrederea lor c\u0103 vor ob\u021bine rezultatul scontat era de nezdruncinat.<\/p>\n

Sigur, cre\u0219teau \u0219i buruieni printre semin\u021bele \u00eencol\u021bite, dar \u0219tiau c\u0103 asta e, le luau ca atare, le smulgeau, nu se sup\u0103rau pe buruieni, pe p\u0103m\u00e2nt, pe cer sau mai \u0219tiu eu pe cine.<\/p>\n

Cred c\u0103 noi am pierdut c\u00e2teva elemente cheie: r\u0103bdarea, disciplina, \u00eencrederea, o oarecare atitudine relaxat\u0103 care \u00ee\u0219i avea sensul s\u0103u. Acum d\u0103m din picior, vrem totul pe repede \u00eenainte, ni se pare c\u0103 ni se cuvine, ne demotiv\u0103m \u00een doi timpi \u0219i trei mi\u0219c\u0103ri \u0219i intr\u0103m \u00een depresii (un termen de care lumea a cam abuzat \u00een ultimii ani).<\/p>\n

R\u0103bdarea are urm\u0103toarele sinonime, \u00een dex online: chin, durere, indulgen\u021b\u0103, \u00eencercare, \u00eeng\u0103duin\u021b\u0103, n\u0103dejde, patim\u0103, p\u0103timire, perseveren\u021b\u0103, speran\u021b\u0103, st\u0103ruin\u021b\u0103, suferin\u021b\u0103, tenacitate, toleran\u021b\u0103, pacien\u021b\u0103.
\nAntonimele r\u0103bdarii s\u00eent: ner\u0103bdarea, intoleran\u021ba, nelini\u0219tea, nervozitatea, impetuozitatea.
\nAr fi interesant de v\u0103zut cum ne-am evalua fiecare pe scara r\u0103bd\u0103rii \u0219i a ner\u0103bd\u0103rii.<\/p>\n

Omul modern pune semin\u021bele, metaforic vorbind, apoi le ud\u0103, o dat\u0103, de dou\u0103 ori, bate din picior, nemul\u021bumit c\u0103 semin\u021bele nu r\u0103spund rapid, precum vrejul de fasole din pove\u0219ti, apoi se agit\u0103, se enerveaz\u0103, cade \u00een apatie, nemul\u021bumire, dezn\u0103dejde. Dac\u0103 nu avem r\u0103splata imediat\u0103 – clientul, \u0219eful, colegul nu r\u0103spund repede, dac\u0103 nu vin ceilal\u021bi c\u0103tre noi, uit\u0103m s\u0103 avem grij\u0103 de rela\u021bie, s\u0103 ud\u0103m semin\u021bele puse. Uit\u0103m c\u0103 orice succes presupune efort, tenacitate, o doz\u0103 mare de \u00eencredere \u00een sine \u0219i \u00een ceilal\u021bi. Uit\u0103m c\u0103 a\u0219teptarea nu trebuie s\u0103 fie una mioritic\u0103, ci una activ\u0103, \u00een sensul \u00een care, a\u0219tept\u00e2nd rezultatul, ne vedem de via\u021ba noastr\u0103, p\u0103str\u00e2nd acea senin\u0103tate pe care o aveau bunicii. Acum numim aceast\u0103 seninatate zen, mindfulness, yoga ne ducem la cursuri de relaxare, care s\u0103 ne aminteasc\u0103 de starea aceea pe care o vedeam la bunici, cei mai mul\u021bi dintre noi, dar parc\u0103 nu i-am dat importan\u021ba cuvenit\u0103.<\/p>\n

Dup\u0103 a\u0219teptare \u0219i munc\u0103 de rigoare, venea \u0219i vremea recoltei. Atunci era alt\u0103 munc\u0103. Dar vremea aceea venea, cu siguran\u021b\u0103. Bunicii no\u0219tri culegeau ce sem\u0103naser\u0103, semin\u021bele pe care le \u00eengrijiser\u0103 d\u0103deau roade.<\/p>\n

Ce facem noi acum nu e departe de un astfel de ciclu de via\u021b\u0103. Succesul recoltei e dat \u00eens\u0103 de r\u0103bdare, dedicare, a\u0219teptare, disciplin\u0103, \u0219i \u00eencrederea c\u0103 lucrurille vor ie\u0219i bine dac\u0103 eu \u0219tiu s\u0103 m\u0103 gestionez pe mine corect \u00een acest proces.<\/p>\n

Mul\u021bumesc pentru r\u0103bdarea de a citi! \u263a\ufe0f\u201d<\/p>\n

Weekly Inspiration scris de Georgeta Dendrino.<\/p>\n

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