{"id":8824,"date":"2020-06-16T08:09:46","date_gmt":"2020-06-16T08:09:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=8824"},"modified":"2020-06-16T08:09:46","modified_gmt":"2020-06-16T08:09:46","slug":"buna-ce-mai-faci","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=8824","title":{"rendered":"Bun\u0103, ce mai faci?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?attachment_id=8825\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8825\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8825 img-fluid\" title=\"georgeta\" src=\"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/georgeta.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"684\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/georgeta.jpeg 684w, https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/georgeta-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 684px) 100vw, 684px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u201dUneori, aceast\u0103 \u00eentrebare este un pretext pentru cel care o pune, de a povesti el despre ce mai face. Nu apuci s\u0103 spui mai mult de \u2018bine, uite, lucram la un proiect, un articol, un raport\u2019, c\u0103 imediat cel\u0103lalt \u00eencepe s\u0103 povesteasc\u0103 despre proiectele sale.<\/p>\n<p>Alteori, \u00eenainte s\u0103 r\u0103spunzi, auzi: \u2018uite, te-am sunat ca s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi spun&#8230;\u2019<\/p>\n<p>Sau: apuci s\u0103 spui \u2018bine\u2019 c\u0103 celalalt spune \u2018bine, nu? M\u0103 bucur! P\u0103i hai s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi spun&#8230;\u2019 sau \u2018\u00eemi pare r\u0103u c\u0103 nu e\u0219ti bine. Uite de ce te-am sunat&#8230;\u2019<\/p>\n<p>Cel mai tare \u00eens\u0103 m\u0103 surprinde o cuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103 din alt\u0103 \u021bar\u0103 care, atunci c\u00e2nd eu \u00eentreb \u2018Ce mai faci?\u2019 r\u0103spunde cu: \u2018firma o duce bine, am reu\u0219it s\u0103 cre\u0219tem v\u00e2nz\u0103rile fa\u021b\u0103 de anul trecut, p\u00e2n\u0103 acum am p\u0103strat to\u021bi angaja\u021bii\u2019. C\u00e2nd spun: \u2018bine, \u0219i tu, tu ce mai faci?\u2019, continu\u0103 cu \u2018challenge-ul este s\u0103 avem un cashflow pozitiv anul acesta\u2019. Atunci \u00eemi dau seama c\u0103 nu are sens s\u0103 mai intreb. Pentru aceast\u0103 persoana imaginea sa este mai important\u0103 dec\u00e2t orice. Nu vrea s\u0103 arate vreo vulnerabilitate, cuv\u00e2ntul \u00een sine are doar conota\u021bii negative \u00een simbiotica acestui om.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2nd e ultima dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd cineva te-a ascultat? Se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 mai rar, poate c\u0103 din lips\u0103 de timp, din lips\u0103 de rabdare, din dorin\u021ba de a eficientiza p\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i rela\u021biile.<br \/>\n\u0218i totu\u0219i, natura ne-a dotat cu o gur\u0103 \u0219i dou\u0103 urechi. Poate c\u0103 e un indiciu aici. Sigur, poate c\u0103 interpretarea e simplist\u0103 &#8211; dar m\u0103 \u00eentreb dac\u0103 rela\u021biile nu ar fi mai bogate, mai echilibrate, dac\u0103 am vorbi mai pu\u021bin \u0219i ne-am asculta mai mult?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Weekly Inspiration scris de Georgeta Dendrino.<\/p>\n<p>#enablingchange<br \/>\n#activelistening<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201dUneori, aceast\u0103 \u00eentrebare este un pretext pentru cel care o pune, de a povesti el despre ce mai face. Nu apuci s\u0103 spui mai mult de \u2018bine, uite, lucram la un proiect,&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[18],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8824"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8824"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8824\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8827,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8824\/revisions\/8827"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8824"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8824"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8824"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}