{"id":8787,"date":"2020-04-28T10:33:47","date_gmt":"2020-04-28T10:33:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=8787"},"modified":"2020-04-28T10:33:47","modified_gmt":"2020-04-28T10:33:47","slug":"%e2%80%9di-am-dat-atata-iubire-de-n-a-putut-sa-o-duca%e2%80%9d-sau-despre-masura-lucrurilor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=8787","title":{"rendered":"\u201dI-am dat at\u00e2ta iubire de n-a putut s\u0103 o duc\u0103!\u201d sau despre m\u0103sura lucrurilor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?attachment_id=8781\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8781\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8781 img-fluid\" title=\"WhatsApp Image 2020-03-17 at 12.02.39\" src=\"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/WhatsApp-Image-2020-03-17-at-12.02.392.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"740\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/WhatsApp-Image-2020-03-17-at-12.02.392.jpeg 740w, https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/WhatsApp-Image-2020-03-17-at-12.02.392-216x300.jpg 216w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 740px) 100vw, 740px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u201dAm avut, cred, to\u021bi, diverse iubiri de-a lungul timpului. Unele au \u021binut mai mult, altele mai pu\u021bin, \u00een unele ne-am implicat mult, \u00een altele ne-am implicat mai mult dec\u00e2t era necesar pentru o rela\u021bie echilibrat\u0103. Vorbesc de acel tip de iubire \u00een care ai senza\u021bia (poate c\u0103 mai mult femeile o au??) c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 dai tu enorm, s\u0103 \u00eel uime\u0219ti pe cel\u0103lalt cu iubirea ta. \u0218i atunci dep\u0103\u0219e\u0219ti m\u0103sura.<\/p>\n<p>M-am g\u00e2ndit la asta c\u00e2nd am f\u0103cut, la noua cafetier\u0103, un espresso. E o cafetier\u0103 profi: \u00ee\u021bi pui tu o doz\u0103 de cafea m\u0103cinat\u0103 \u0219i apoi pui acea doz\u0103 \u00een aparat. Eu m-am g\u00e2ndit s\u0103 pun mai mult\u0103 cafea, s\u0103 o \u00eendes acolo c\u00e2t pot, am mai pus \u0219i pe l\u00e2ng\u0103, ca s\u0103 ias\u0103 sigur cea mai bun\u0103 cafea (de calitatea ei m-am asigurat c\u00e2nd am cump\u0103rat-o). Evident c\u0103 am dat pe l\u00e2ng\u0103, nu a \u00eenc\u0103put dec\u00e2t c\u00e2t putea s\u0103 cuprind\u0103 acel dispozitiv.<\/p>\n<p>Imaginea cafelei risipite a fost pentru mine asemenea imaginii iubirii date cuiva \u00een doze prea mari. Sun\u0103 cam ciudat, mai ales pentru ideali\u0219ti (\u0219tiu eu pe cineva:)): nu e iubirea adev\u0103rat\u0103, oare, exhaustiv\u0103, extrem\u0103, de genul \u2018all or nothing\u2019? Poate c\u0103 r\u0103spunsul este: \u2018Nu, dac\u0103 ne abandon\u0103m pe noi!\u2019 Nu, dac\u0103 ne a\u0219tept\u0103m ca cel\u0103lalt s\u0103 valorizeze la fel de mult ce \u00eei d\u0103m. Nu, dac\u0103 din partea cealalt\u0103 reac\u021bia este diferit\u0103 mult. Nu, dac\u0103 d\u0103m prea des \u0219i prea mult, \u00een compara\u021bie cu ce a\u0219teapt\u0103, vrea, poate duce cel\u0103lalt. C\u00e2nd cel\u0103lalt va vrea, va cere, e bine s\u0103 fim acolo (dac\u0103 el \/ ea conteaz\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat). Dar cam at\u00e2t.<\/p>\n<p>Nu putem s\u0103 punem mai mult\u0103 cafea dec\u00e2t \u00eencape, chiar dac\u0103 noi avem resurse \u0219i vrem. A pune tot pachetul peste pentru un espresso scurt \u00eenseam\u0103 s\u0103 dep\u0103\u0219im m\u0103sura, s\u0103 facem risip\u0103, s\u0103 ne d\u0103m b\u0103t\u0103i de cap.<br \/>\nPoate c\u0103 e mai bine s\u0103 avem m\u0103sur\u0103 \u00een toate, chiar \u0219i \u00een iubire. Suferin\u021bele cele mai mari de acolo ne vin, la fel cum ne vin \u0219i bucuriile cele mai mari.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Weekly Inspiration scris de Georgeta Dendrino.<\/p>\n<p>#enablingchange<br \/>\n#interacters<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; \u201dAm avut, cred, to\u021bi, diverse iubiri de-a lungul timpului. Unele au \u021binut mai mult, altele mai pu\u021bin, \u00een unele ne-am implicat mult, \u00een altele ne-am implicat mai mult dec\u00e2t era necesar&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[18],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8787"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8787"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8787\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8789,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8787\/revisions\/8789"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8787"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8787"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8787"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}