{"id":8780,"date":"2020-04-14T16:46:17","date_gmt":"2020-04-14T16:46:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=8780"},"modified":"2020-04-14T16:46:17","modified_gmt":"2020-04-14T16:46:17","slug":"in-cautarea-respectului-de-altadata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=8780","title":{"rendered":"\u00cen c\u0103utarea respectului de alt\u0103dat\u0103&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?attachment_id=8781\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8781\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8781 img-fluid\" title=\"WhatsApp Image 2020-03-17 at 12.02.39\" src=\"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/WhatsApp-Image-2020-03-17-at-12.02.392.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"740\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/WhatsApp-Image-2020-03-17-at-12.02.392.jpeg 740w, https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/WhatsApp-Image-2020-03-17-at-12.02.392-216x300.jpg 216w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 740px) 100vw, 740px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u201dCare alt\u0103dat\u0103?<\/p>\n<p>De mai demult, nu de dinaintea apari\u021biei acestui virus, nu. Poate din acele vremuri c\u00e2nd eram mic\u0103 \u0219i c\u00e2nd p\u0103rin\u021bii mei \u00eemi spuneau c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 am respect fa\u021b\u0103 de oameni, orice v\u00e2rst\u0103 ar avea. Ei tot spuneau atunci c\u0103 e bine s\u0103 \u00eei respect pe to\u021bi oamenii, iar pe cei care \u2018au carte\u2019 (a\u0219a ziceau ei), s\u0103 \u00eei respect \u0219i mai tare.<\/p>\n<p>Care respect? Iat\u0103 c\u00e2teva fa\u021bete care \u00eemi vin \u00een minte:<br \/>\n&#8211; Respectul managerului fa\u021b\u0103 de oamenii din echipa sa. \u0218tiu, au fost multe derapaje \u00een multe firme, at\u00e2t manageri rom\u00e2ni c\u00e2t \u0219i str\u0103ini au avut atitudini nedemne fa\u021b\u0103 de ceilal\u021bi \u0219i, mai mult dec\u00e2t at\u00e2t, au fost \u0219i promova\u021bi. Asta nu invalideaz\u0103 principiul, \u00eens\u0103;<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Respectul oamenilor fa\u021b\u0103 de manager. Mema aceea cu \u2018managerul e un idiot\u2019 devenise plictisitoare pentru mine; majoritatea se pl\u00e2ngea de manager, nu schimba neaparat departamentul, firma, dar \u00ee\u0219i dorea s\u0103 devin\u0103 manager;<br \/>\n&#8211; Respectul tinerilor fa\u021b\u0103 de cei cu ceva ani mai mari dec\u00e2t ei: devenise o mod\u0103 ca, dac\u0103 e\u0219ti t\u00e2n\u0103r, s\u0103 la\u0219i acas\u0103 bunul sim\u021b \u0219i s\u0103 te por\u021bi cu insolen\u021b\u0103; nu e o dovad\u0103 de IQ ci de lips\u0103 de maniere;<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Respectul celor mai \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de tineri: oamenii au uitat c\u0103 \u0219i ei au fost tineri, c\u0103 \u0219i ei au avut inadecv\u0103ri, c\u0103 avem tinerii pe care \u00eei cre\u0219tem, \u0219i c\u0103 mai t\u00e2n\u0103r dec\u00e2t noi nu este egal cu mai pu\u021bin capabil;<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Respectul fa\u021b\u0103 de o meserie: ca s\u0103 numesc doar c\u00e2teva meserii, timp de treizeci de ani ne-am b\u0103tut joc de cei care aveau ca profesie s\u0103 ne educe copiii, s\u0103 ne redea s\u0103n\u0103tatea fizic\u0103, \u00een cazul medicilor, sau psihic\u0103, \u00een cazul psihoterapeu\u021bilor. Ce vreau s\u0103 spun aici? Atunci c\u00e2nd ne apuc\u0103m de a doua sau a treia facultate \u00een joac\u0103, doar ca s\u0103 avem o h\u00e2rtie, f\u0103r\u0103 studiu prea mult, \u0219i profes\u0103m \u00eentr-un domeniu pe care \u00eel profan\u0103m astfel;<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Respectul fa\u021b\u0103 de ceea ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 valoare: pentru mul\u021bi, valoare \u00eensemn\u0103 bani, manifestarea lor erau ma\u0219inile, vilele enorme, dot\u0103rile la purt\u0103tor, papucii cu bl\u0103ni\u021b\u0103 purta\u021bi vara. \u00cen alte domenii a fost o vreme c\u00e2nd peste noapte oamenii au devenit ce au vrut ei, s-au autointitulat, iar poleiala a \u021binut loc de con\u021binut: cu c\u00e2t erai mai vocal, cu c\u00e2t te b\u0103teai mai mult cu pumnii \u00een piept, asemenea gorilelor cu spatele argintiu, cu at\u00e2t erai mai adulat de anumite mul\u021bimi;<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Respectul fa\u021b\u0103 de pagina alb\u0103, sau de ecranul unde post\u0103m ceva: parc\u0103 prea ne punem \u0219i gunoiul, mizeria la vedere, e grotesc\u0103 fuga dup\u0103 aten\u021bia publicului;<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Respectul fa\u021b\u0103 de mediul \u00eenconjurator: de la locul de l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine, la strad\u0103, la ora\u0219, la \u021bar\u0103, poate e bine s\u0103 avem grij\u0103 s\u0103 l\u0103s\u0103m \u00een urma noastr\u0103 curat, s\u0103 plant\u0103m, nu s\u0103 distrugem. P\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, noi \u2018cre\u0103m\u2019 mediul \u00een care vor tr\u0103i copiii no\u0219tri;<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Respectul fa\u021b\u0103 de noi \u00een\u0219ine: m\u0103 descump\u0103ne\u0219te felul \u00een care vorbim despre rom\u00e2ni, at\u00e2t mul\u021bi dintre cei care tr\u0103iesc aici, c\u00e2t \u0219i dintre cei care acum locuiesc \u00een str\u0103inatate: totul e f\u0103cut cu ou \u0219i o\u021bet. Nu zic c\u0103 nu s\u00eent multe de schimbat. Dar a arunca a\u0219a cu noroi \u00een tot ce e \u00een \u021bara asta e similar cu a face pipi \u00een sus: cade pe tine.<\/p>\n<p>Nu \u0219tiu cum va fi peste c\u00e2teva luni. Nu pot dec\u00e2t s\u0103 sper c\u0103 ne reg\u00e2ndim sistemul de valori, ne repozi\u021bion\u0103m, \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 apreciem ce conteaz\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Weekly Inspiration scris de Georgeta Dendrino.<\/p>\n<p>#enablingchange<br \/>\n#interacters<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; \u201dCare alt\u0103dat\u0103? De mai demult, nu de dinaintea apari\u021biei acestui virus, nu. Poate din acele vremuri c\u00e2nd eram mic\u0103 \u0219i c\u00e2nd p\u0103rin\u021bii mei \u00eemi spuneau c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 am respect fa\u021b\u0103&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[18],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8780"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8780"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8780\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8783,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8780\/revisions\/8783"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8780"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8780"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8780"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}