{"id":8725,"date":"2020-03-03T12:06:52","date_gmt":"2020-03-03T12:06:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=8725"},"modified":"2020-03-03T12:06:52","modified_gmt":"2020-03-03T12:06:52","slug":"ce-au-in-comun-oamenii-sculptura-si-tigaia-de-teflon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=8725","title":{"rendered":"Ce au \u00een comun oamenii, sculptura \u0219i tigaia de teflon?"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\u201dSe spune c\u0103 e bine s\u0103 c\u0103l\u0103tore\u0219ti, s\u0103 vezi alte locuri, al\u021bi oameni, alte culturi, alte obiceiuri. C\u0103l\u0103toria te face mai sensibil la ceilal\u021bi, mai flexibil, \u00ee\u021bi deschide orizonturi, te \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 c\u0103 zicerea \u2018My way or the highway\u2019 nu indic\u0103 o persoan\u0103 hot\u0103r\u00e2t\u0103 ci una cu rigidit\u0103\u021bi.<\/p>\n

Experien\u021bele noastre, ad\u0103ugate peste educa\u021bie, c\u0103r\u021bi citite, muzic\u0103 ascultat\u0103, muzee vizitate, art\u0103 admirat\u0103, oameni cu care interac\u021bion\u0103m, ar trebui s\u0103 ne modeleze, s\u0103 fac\u0103 din noi opere de art\u0103, a\u0219a cum marii sculptori au f\u0103cut din piatra col\u021buroasa, brut\u0103, opere aproape de perfec\u021biune, pe care le admir\u0103 at\u00e2tea genera\u021bii.<\/p>\n

Mai mult dec\u00e2t at\u00e2t, s-a vorbit at\u00e2t de mult despre cum comunic\u0103m, empatie, inteligen\u021b\u0103 emo\u021bional\u0103, ascultare, compasiune, \u00eenc\u00e2t, chiar dac\u0103 nu ai vrut, tot \u0219i-au trecut pe la urechi no\u021biunile.
\n\u0218i totu\u0219i, parc\u0103 de unii nu se prinde nimic. Ei se aseam\u0103n\u0103 cu tigaia de teflon: robust\u0103, nu se prinde nimic de ea.
\nLa fel s\u00eent unii oameni: oric\u00e2t au c\u0103l\u0103torit, oric\u00e2t de mul\u021bi oameni au \u00eent\u00e2lnit, ei au r\u0103mas tot \u00een stare brut\u0103. Ne\u0219lefui\u021bi, ei vor vorbi ca s\u0103 se aud\u0103, ca s\u0103 iasa \u00een fa\u021b\u0103, chiar dac\u0103 nu au o contribu\u021bie constructiv\u0103 la conversa\u021bie. Parc\u0103 ei se str\u0103duiesc s\u0103 nu ias\u0103 o oper\u0103 de art\u0103 din ei, ci bolovani c\u0103zu\u021bi pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 st\u00e2nci.
\nPoate c\u0103 ei cred c\u0103 a spune cuiva verde \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 ce le trece prin cap e o dovad\u0103 de curaj, de cuno\u0219tin\u021be multe. Am o veste proast\u0103: e doar o dovad\u0103 de nesofisticare. <\/p>\n

Ce sugerez:<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 nu e\u0219ti de acord cu ceva, pune o \u00eentrebare de clarificare – cu grij\u0103 \u00eens\u0103, cu aten\u021bie: felul \u00een care te manife\u0219ti spune despre tine, nu despre cel\u0103lalt.<\/p>\n

Evit\u0103 s\u0103 te afirmi c\u0103lc\u00e2nd \u00een picioare pe altcineva; nu vrei s\u0103 dai indicii negative despre tine, p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103. <\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 nu ai ceva bun, constructiv de spus, mai bine taci, respinge propriul negativism, omor\u0103-l din fa\u0219\u0103.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 totu\u0219i \u00ee\u021bi vine s\u0103 \u00eei faci pe al\u021bii de \u2018cafe au lait\u2019, c\u0103 \u021bie nu \u00ee\u021bi pas\u0103 oricum, c\u0103 tu te crezi mai presus de to\u021bi, crezi c\u0103 ai dreptul s\u0103 te por\u021bi ur\u00e2t cu ceilal\u021bi (nu \u0219tiu cine crezi c\u0103 \u021bi-ar fi dat acest drept), atunci nu uita c\u0103 roata se \u00eentoarce, iar c\u00e2nd se va face gol \u00een jurul t\u0103u, c\u00e2nd cei care erau pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine din interes, nu mai au de ce s\u0103 stea, singurul responsabil de lini\u0219tea \u00eenfioratoare vei fi tu. Iar sunetul golului este tare ur\u00e2t!\u201d<\/p>\n

Weekly Inspiration scris de Georgeta Dendrino.<\/p>\n

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\u201dSe spune c\u0103 e bine s\u0103 c\u0103l\u0103tore\u0219ti, s\u0103 vezi alte locuri, al\u021bi oameni, alte culturi, alte obiceiuri. C\u0103l\u0103toria te face mai sensibil la ceilal\u021bi, mai flexibil, \u00ee\u021bi deschide orizonturi, te \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 c\u0103…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[18],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8725"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8725"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8725\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8727,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8725\/revisions\/8727"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8725"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8725"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8725"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}