{"id":8561,"date":"2020-01-14T12:49:32","date_gmt":"2020-01-14T12:49:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=8561"},"modified":"2020-01-14T12:49:32","modified_gmt":"2020-01-14T12:49:32","slug":"o-lume-a-nepasarii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=8561","title":{"rendered":"O lume a nep\u0103s\u0103rii?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?attachment_id=8457\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8457\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-8457 img-fluid\" title=\"georgeta dendrino\" src=\"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/georgeta-dendrino-1024x682.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/georgeta-dendrino-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/georgeta-dendrino-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/georgeta-dendrino.jpeg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u201dAm crescut \u00eentr-un cartier de case \u00een Bucure\u0219ti. De\u0219i eram \u00een perioada comunist\u0103 \u0219i \u0219tiam c\u0103 erau \u0219i oameni de care era bine s\u0103 ne ferim, cu care trebuia s\u0103 nu vorbim multe, oamenii erau aten\u021bi \u0219i le p\u0103sa unii de ceilal\u021bi. Dac\u0103 nu vedeam pe cineva o zi, ne duceam la poart\u0103 \u0219i il \/ o strigam. Dac\u0103 nu r\u0103spundea, intram \u00een curte \u0219i b\u0103team la u\u0219\u0103. Vecinii \u00ee\u0219i duceau unii altora diverse pr\u0103jituri, m\u00e2nc\u0103ruri mai altfel, ceva ce aveau ei mai special \u0219i doreau s\u0103 \u00eempart\u0103 cu ceilal\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p>Mama mea \u00eenc\u0103 locuie\u0219te acolo \u0219i s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat ca un vecin s\u0103 m\u0103 sune s\u0103 \u00eemi spun\u0103 c\u0103 nu o v\u0103zuse deloc \u00een ziua aceea.<br \/>\n\u0218i azi, c\u00e2nd cineva nu e acas\u0103, las\u0103 cheia de la poart\u0103 \u0219i m\u00e2ncare unui vecin pentru a hr\u0103ni c\u00e2inele, pisica.<br \/>\nPoate c\u0103 unora li se pare un comportament provincial \u0219i r\u00e2d de ceea ce scriu aici. Nu m-ar mira.<br \/>\nPrefer acest comportament celui \u2018sofisticat\u2019 al nep\u0103s\u0103rii, al lipsei de empatie, al egoismului, al dezumaniz\u0103rii.<br \/>\nAm citit c\u0103 unii dau vina pe social media ca s\u0103 justifice nep\u0103sarea, dezinteresul fa\u021b\u0103 de cei din jur, centrarea exclusiv pe sine.<br \/>\nFa\u021ba uman\u0103 a societ\u0103\u021bii ar trebui s\u0103 nu \u021bin\u0103 de trenduri \u0219i app-uri; s\u0103 \u00eencepem s\u0103 construim leg\u0103turi \u00een loc de c\u00e2t mai multe ziduri \u00eentre noi. Vorbim at\u00e2t de mult de inteligen\u021ba emo\u021bional\u0103, mergem la cursuri, citim despre asta, avem conversa\u021bii intelectuale, meta &#8211; inteligen\u021b\u0103 emo\u021bional\u0103 &#8211; dar nu ne pas\u0103 de cineva de l\u00e2ng\u0103 noi, nu ne purt\u0103m \u00een consecin\u021b\u0103 cu vorbele noastre.<\/p>\n<p>V\u0103 propun s\u0103 v\u0103 g\u00e2ndi\u021bi:<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2\u021bi prieteni \/ c\u00e2te rude \/ c\u00e2te cuno\u0219tin\u021be singure ave\u021bi \u00een jur?<\/p>\n<p>Ce a\u021bi f\u0103cut de s\u0103rb\u0103tori ca s\u0103 le fi\u021bi aproape, s\u0103 le ar\u0103ta\u021bi c\u0103 s\u00eente\u021bi acolo?<\/p>\n<p>De c\u00e2te ori pe lun\u0103 \u00eei vede\u021bi? De c\u00e2te ori \u00eei \u00eentreba\u021bi ce mai fac \u0219i chiar a\u0219tepta\u021bi s\u0103 v\u0103 r\u0103spund\u0103, asculta\u021bi? Nu de complezen\u021b\u0103, nu, to\u021bi sim\u021bim c\u00e2nd cineva o face ca s\u0103 bifeze ac\u021biunea.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2nd a\u021bi sunat o astfel de persoan\u0103 \u0219i a\u021bi spus: vreau s\u0103 vin pe la tine, c\u00e2nd e mai potrivit?<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2nd a\u021bi \u00eencercat s\u0103 \u2018citi\u021bi\u2019 ce e dincolo de aparen\u021be? C\u00e2nd a\u021bi l\u0103sat deoparte confortul personal ca s\u0103 asculta\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103 sprijini\u021bi pe altcineva?<\/p>\n<p>Mi-ar pl\u0103cea ca, \u00eencep\u00e2nd de azi, s\u0103 ne pese mai mult. A\u0219a ne facem bine ca indivizi \u0219i ca societate.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Weekly Inspiration scris de Georgeta Dendrino.<\/p>\n<p>#interacters<br \/>\n#enablingchange<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; \u201dAm crescut \u00eentr-un cartier de case \u00een Bucure\u0219ti. De\u0219i eram \u00een perioada comunist\u0103 \u0219i \u0219tiam c\u0103 erau \u0219i oameni de care era bine s\u0103 ne ferim, cu care trebuia s\u0103 nu&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[18],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8561"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8561"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8561\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8566,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8561\/revisions\/8566"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8561"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8561"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8561"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}