{"id":8532,"date":"2020-01-06T13:08:59","date_gmt":"2020-01-06T13:08:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=8532"},"modified":"2020-01-06T13:08:59","modified_gmt":"2020-01-06T13:08:59","slug":"pledoarie-pentru-a-ne-stabili-obiective-scopuri-la-inceput-de-an","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?p=8532","title":{"rendered":"Pledoarie pentru a ne stabili obiective, scopuri, la \u00eenceput de an"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/?attachment_id=8533\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8533\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-8533 img-fluid\" title=\"borcan obiective\" src=\"http:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/borcan-obiective-788x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"788\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/borcan-obiective-788x1024.jpg 788w, https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/borcan-obiective-231x300.jpg 231w, https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/borcan-obiective.jpeg 1232w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 788px) 100vw, 788px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u201d\u00cenceputul anului vine cu c\u00e2teva zile libere bine venite. Ele ar putea fi folosite inten\u021bionat pentru a ne opri din alergare, din \u2018a face\u2019 \u0219i a ne preocupa pu\u021bin de \u2018a fi\u2019, a ne proiecta \u00een viitor, a reflecta asupra noastr\u0103, a ceea ce ne dorim. A\u0219 lua aceste zile ca pe un interval de lini\u0219te ca s\u0103 ne adun\u0103m g\u00e2ndurile, s\u0103 ne \u2018re-punem pe \u0219ine\u2019. Nu avem o astfel de perioad\u0103 \u00een an \u00een care (aproape) toat\u0103 lumea s\u0103 fie pe modulul \u2018relaxare\u2019, \u00een care s\u0103 nu primim emails, s\u0103 nu ne cear\u0103 cineva ceva.<\/p>\n<p>Consider c\u0103 este un moment ideal s\u0103 ne g\u00e2ndim la ce vrem pentru anul care tocmai a \u00eenceput. Ideal ar fi ca acest plan s\u0103 fie \u00een concordan\u021b\u0103 cu un plan mai mare personal. Dac\u0103 nu avem un astfel de plan explicit, m\u0103car s\u0103 ne facem unul anual.<\/p>\n<p>A ne propune ni\u0219te scopuri mai \u00eenalte dec\u00e2t a merge la birou, a face cump\u0103r\u0103turi, a face de m\u00e2ncare \u0219i alte treburi casnice, ne ajut\u0103 s\u0103 tr\u0103im o via\u021b\u0103 mai bun\u0103, ne ridic\u0103 deasupra cotidianului, ne asigur\u0103 o doz\u0103 bun\u0103 de oxigen c\u00e2nd s\u00eentem parc\u0103 sufoca\u021bi de treburile zilnice.<br \/>\nC\u00e2nd avem c\u00e2teva scopuri mai \u00eenalte, unele care s\u0103 ne fac\u0103 pe noi mai buni, sau prin care s\u0103 contribuim la o via\u021b\u0103 mai bun\u0103 pentru al\u021bii, atunci peste an, seara, c\u00e2nd ajungem acas\u0103 obosi\u021bi, c\u00e2nd s\u00eentem tri\u0219ti, c\u00e2nd parc\u0103 nu mai vedem speran\u021ba pentru ceva mai luminos, ne putem aminti de scopurile noastre, ne putem face un bilan\u021b \u0219i ne putem lua energie de acolo.<\/p>\n<p>E bine s\u0103 \u00eendr\u0103znim s\u0103 vis\u0103m pu\u021bin deaspura cercului nostru str\u00e2mt \u00een care ne \u00eenv\u00e2rtim. S\u0103 \u00eencepem s\u0103 facem pa\u0219i \u00een acea direc\u021bie; nu mari, pu\u021bin c\u00e2te pu\u021bin, \u00een fiecare zi, pe principiul \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bire cu 1% \u00een fiecare zi. Putem chiar s\u0103 test\u0103m principiul \u00een alt\u0103 zon\u0103: s\u0103 punem 100 de lei \u00eentr-o pu\u0219culi\u021b\u0103 la 1 ianuarie. Dac\u0103 ad\u0103ug\u0103m c\u00e2te 1% la sold \u00een fiecare zi, la finalul anului vom avea 3778 de lei. Imagina\u021bi-v\u0103 cum ar fi dac\u0103 face\u021bi 1% \u00een fiecare zi \u00een direc\u021bia scopurilor pe care le ave\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p>A ne stabili un scop, un obiectiv, ne ajut\u0103 s\u0103 ne ridic\u0103m deasupra obi\u0219nuin\u021bei, a liniei de plutire la care tr\u0103iesc cei mai mul\u021bi oameni. A tr\u0103i pe medie nu este neap\u0103rat constructiv. Media nu ne individualizeaz\u0103. O via\u021b\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 scop, f\u0103r\u0103 aspira\u021bii, vise, las\u0103 loc mediocrit\u0103\u021bii. Iar mediocritatea ucide spiritul.<\/p>\n<p>Prin urmare a\u0219 recomanda:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; S\u0103 ne punem azi obiectivele, scopurile pentru acest an (dac\u0103 nu am facut-o).<br \/>\nS\u0103 le scriem \u0219i undeva, la vedere, pentru noi (eu mai pun pe u\u0219\u0103, ca s\u0103 vad \u00een fiecare zi); scriu \u00een francez\u0103, ca s\u0103 nu primesc \u00eentreb\u0103ri de la mama. Dac\u0103 nu putem, s\u0103 le avem undeva la \u00eendem\u00e2n\u0103, ca s\u0103 le putem revedea u\u0219or.<br \/>\n&#8211; S\u0103 ne facem un borcan special pentru obiective, \u00een care s\u0103 punem, pe un post-it, de-a lungul anului, ce am f\u0103cut \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu ce ne-am propus. Orice ac\u021biune, c\u00e2t de mic\u0103, e bine s\u0103 fie acolo, orice pas; s\u0103 nu ne a\u0219tept\u0103m la ceva mare, s\u0103 d\u0103m aten\u021bie pa\u0219ilor mici. \u0218ti\u021bi mozaicurile f\u0103cute din pietre mici de diverse culori? A\u0219a e \u0219i obiectivul nostru.<br \/>\n&#8211; S\u0103 ne uit\u0103m la acest borcan cu post-its colorate peste an, de c\u00e2te ori s\u00eentem obosi\u021bi, f\u0103r\u0103 scop, ne sim\u021bim ca un \u0219oricel \u00een roat\u0103.<br \/>\n&#8211; S\u0103 ne implic\u0103m \u00een a ajuta pe al\u021bii (o cauz\u0103, o \u0219coal\u0103, un copil, ni\u0219te oameni \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103).<\/p>\n<p>La finalul anului, c\u00e2nd ne uit\u0103m \u00een urm\u0103, sentimentul de satisfac\u021bie va \u00eenlocui oboseala, lipsa de sens, stresul, nemul\u021bumirea \u0219i alte negativisme.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Weekly Inspiration scris de Georgeta Dendrino.<\/p>\n<p>#interacters<br \/>\n#enablingchange<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201d\u00cenceputul anului vine cu c\u00e2teva zile libere bine venite. Ele ar putea fi folosite inten\u021bionat pentru a ne opri din alergare, din \u2018a face\u2019 \u0219i a ne preocupa pu\u021bin de \u2018a fi\u2019,&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[18],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8532"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8532"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8532\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8535,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8532\/revisions\/8535"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8532"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8532"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-interact.eu\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8532"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}